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[SIZE="a"]My boyfriend kept asking me to have sex , I am not ready and kept saying no and I broke up with him Friday night. I don't understand why he didn't stop asking. Idk whats wrong with me.[/size]
There is NOTHING wrong with you. It is not right of him to continue pressuring you to have sex when you clearly said no, and you should be proud of yourself for not giving in to him. You definitely don't want to do something you'd regret later, because sex can be something really intimate and important to some people.
It sounds like he doesn't respect your boundaries or your wishes at all, and the situation could have gotten abusive quickly. He doesn't sound like the type of guy you deserve to be with at all. You deserve to be with someone who respects it when you say that you're not ready to have sex, who respects your boundaries, who treats you kindly and fairly and doesn't pressure you to do anything you don't want to do, whether that's sex or something else.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
Me either. If it makes you feel any better I am a 30 year old and have never engaged in anything sexual as a teenager and even as a grown adult.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to not have sex at all. I feel it's wrong of him to pressure you into this, and begin to question the relationship. NO means NO.
As said right above my post I agree with everything said.
Hi, I'm sorry you we're going through this and you did a good job breaking up with him, not a lot of people would have done that. I hope you are doing okay and someone better will come along for you.
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in happiness, joy, sadness and envy.
-Jacques d’Ambroise''