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December 22nd 2016, 09:32 PM
Okay I like this girl. And she is my fuckbuddy. I really like her. But A) she has a boyfriend and B) she is underage. 13 year difference. I dont know what to do. I tried talkin to her bout it she says she cant be in a realshonship with me she just likes being friends and fuck buddies. Which I dont. Im 26 and she is 13. Her boyfriend is 14. And I dont really like him. What do I do?
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December 22nd 2016, 09:40 PM
Dude. This has to be a troll.
Shes underage. Its illegal. Move on
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December 22nd 2016, 09:42 PM
This is illegal and considered statutory rape in the state of Florida. The age of consent in Florida is 18, with the exception of someone ages 16-17 having sex with someone no older than 23. I'd suggest cutting ties and possibly hiring a lawyer. If no longer having contact is very difficult for you, I highly suggest seeking a counselor who can help.
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December 22nd 2016, 09:49 PM
A 26 year old with a 13 year old? A lot of people would be concerned as she's underage and it's statutory rape. You should not be having sex with someone who is barely a teenager. It's illegal and immoral. Like Nightblood has said, cut ties with her immediately and move on, find someone closer to your age.
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December 22nd 2016, 10:03 PM
So I should block her off of everything. Kik, Insta and everything. Mean she is losing contact with me. Should I just finish cutting off the concetion
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Re: My fuckbuddy has a boyfriend. -
December 22nd 2016, 11:08 PM
I would cut off contact and look into a lawyer. There is so much that could go wrong with this because she is underage. Having relations with a minor is a crime and if you get caught and prosecuted you will have to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life.
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Re: My fuckbuddy has a boyfriend. -
December 23rd 2016, 12:04 AM
As the others have said, it's illegal and considered statutory rape seeing as she is only just a teenager. In reality, people with that age difference while being so young shouldn't be dating let alone having sex, and the fact you aren't actually dating doesn't make it better. She also has a boyfriend, and I highly doubt he would approve if he found out. Really you are meant to be the grown up here, so do the adult thing and stop.
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December 23rd 2016, 12:38 AM
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So I should block her off of everything. Kik, Insta and everything. Mean she is losing contact with me. Should I just finish cutting off the concetion
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Yes, Yes you should
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Re: My fuckbuddy has a boyfriend. -
December 23rd 2016, 01:44 AM
Hi Jay,
Like the others have said you should cut off ties immediately, getting a lawyer might be a good idea as well. I once had a friend who had a boyfriend who was 15 years older than her, he had to do some jail time as she reported him. You don't want to have that happen to yourself.
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Re: My fuckbuddy has a boyfriend. -
December 23rd 2016, 11:30 AM
Leave her and get a girl your own age man, that's all I have to say
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Re: My fuckbuddy has a boyfriend. -
December 23rd 2016, 04:28 PM
Thank you all. I did the advice. I lost contact with her. And I been goin to the bar to find someone my own age. Thank you all so much.
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Re: My fuckbuddy has a boyfriend. -
December 26th 2016, 01:54 PM
I would delete this post because you are either trolling or being serious, each one scares me.
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