LDR Boyfriend in Hospital-please help.

[suzume111]

Hi

I apologize in advice if this is in the wrong section, I wasn't sure what to post this under.

I am in a long distance relationship with a guy. He recently went into the hospital and is in Intensive Care Unit. His father tells me that there is a chance he could die from a throat disease.

Since now the only way I can contact him is through his father on kik, but I havent actually talked to my boyfriend in about 17 days. I've asked his father to please keep me updated on his health but he dosent I have been trying to get a reach of him and no one will respond. Im getting so worried that maybe he had passed away and its making me so depressed I can hardly function anymore. I honestly don't know what to do.

I was thinking about getting a job and going to see him but saving up would take so long?

I just don't know what to do.

[Forging Galaxies]

Alright, since no one sorta replied as soon as possible. I'll give it my best shot.

I'm sorry that your boyfriend is in hospital and that he's struggling but I am sure that he'll manage to overtake the disease he have.

Is there anyway that you can get in contact with any of his family members? Like on facebook?

If there's no other options to contact anyone who knows how he's holding up, do not assume anything just yet. I'm certainly sure that your boyfriend is okay and that the doctors there are treating him most good.

In the meantime, try and drive your thoughts away from him as much as possible and I know that may be hard but it could help you function better (I'm speaking on experience here).

For the money problem, you haven't said which country he is from so plane tickets cost may differ from places to places. In any case, getting a job would help quite alot and you could sell things in your possession that you don't really need, just an small suggestion.

Sorry if any of this didn't help, I'm here to PM/VM if you want to talk. I know talking could distract you off some things. Best of luck to you and your boyfriend.
I am sure everything will work out.

[suzume111]

Thank you so much for the advice, and no he dosen't really have any family members since his mother and brother had died earlier this year. And his father is he only one he has right now.

Ill try my best to stay positive

[Lelola]

Well, it may not be legal for you even to travel right now since in some places you are viewed as a minor. Some hotels won't rent to people under the age of 21 in some cities and many require a credit card on file. Some won't take debit cards. Keep that in mind.

You can try googling his name and looking for obituaries in the town he lives in. Usually if a minor dies, the high schools and papers will report on it.

[suzume111]

Ive already established where id stay and everything if I do visit him.
Hes not in school anymore since hes 19 so thats wouldn't work.