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kdawg08

August 2nd 2014 02:07 AM

Boyfriend fingered me, need help ASAP

My boyfriend decided he wanted to finger me. I let him, normally whenever i do it myself I just use two or three and I have small fingers, pianist fingers is what everyone tells me. He was us in 3-4 and his are bigger than mine. I bled, a lot, more than him just scratching me, it got uncomfortable and not pleasurable for me so I had him stop. It's been about 4 days, and I wuit bleeding that night but it kind of hurts to pee, an if im at the wrong angle it hurts. I owed a lot today and it's constantly there, it feels kinda like if you have to stop peeing in the middle of peeing. Did he partially tear my hymen? Will it get better? I don't want my parents to know... im 17

xxpaigiexx

August 2nd 2014 06:56 AM

Re: Boyfriend fingered me, need help ASAP

Hey there,

Maybe he was just a little too rough with you, next time if what your boyfriend is doing to you hurts let him know. If you feel uncomfortable then let him know. I'm thinking he may have stratched you a little, and that is probably why it's uncomfortable now. If the discomfort continues speak with your doctor.

Best of luck,
Paige

Eternal

August 2nd 2014 02:59 PM

Re: Boyfriend fingered me, need help ASAP

I've moved this over to Sex & Pubery. :)
Were his hands clean when he fingered you? If it hurts to pee and it's a burning sensation then you may want to visit a doctor and get tested to see if you got a urinary tract infection. It happened to me before and it was very uncomfortable but the antibiotics they give you for it helps pretty quickly.
Another reason you are still in pain is he could have scratched the walls of your vagina. Had he clipped his nails recently?
In the future, be sure to go slow and use lube if needed. I'm glad that you had him stop as soon as it got painful.

Always *

August 2nd 2014 08:17 PM

Re: Boyfriend fingered me, need help ASAP

I've had a UTI before and apparently it is common for some girls to get them when they do sexual stuff so it might be a good idea to check into Nicole's suggestion.
For the future I'd ask him to only use 1-2 fingers and be gentler.
If you see a doctor he/she can probably give you a better idea of what is wrong

taylalatbh.

August 3rd 2014 10:10 AM

Re: Boyfriend fingered me, need help ASAP

Sounds like he's just cut you a bit, but it could be a UTI like the others have said. Lay off the sexual activity for a few days and if the pain doesn't go away then you should see a doctor just to make sure it's not a UTI or anything else.

Next time you are sexual with him, just tell him you want him to be more gentle because last time it wasn't good. I'm sure he'll understand.

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