My girlfriend won't give affection

[cherrypie36]

My girlfriend have been dating for over a month and I finally got up the nerve to want to kiss her but i wanted to make sure it was okay with her and so we were talking about and she told me she wont kiss me back. she told me she is scared of showing affection and she said she doesn't know how to give affection.

I give her plenty of it. I kiss her on the cheek. I hug her and rub her leg and what not but when it comes to kissing, she won't kiss me back. MIND you, I have not kissed her yet but she said she wont kiss me back and she said, I have to wait and the problem with that is i'm very impatient and I live off affection and its affecting our relationship because i'm getting tired of pulling all the weight in this relationship and getting nothing back for it. at all.

i want to kiss her but i can't because she won't kiss me back and it wont feel right.
i have no patience....none at all and i dont know how to get her to show affection and stop being scared

[DaniGirl]

hun i know how you feel and its annoying i say this cause i was in the same place as you one time my girlfriend gave up adoration all together and luckly she had said i showed her how to love again. unfortunately she broke up after she told me she was streight.

[algeniuspower]

Hey there,
I may not know much about dating since I'm only sixteen but I have a suggestion. You say you are impatient and it makes sense, I am the same way. I empathize with that. Your girlfriend seems to still want the boundery of no kissing, just holding hands and hugging seems to be what she likes. You might have to respect that, but you can always talk to her more about the subject. The key to a good relationship is communication and I know talking about it one on one can be very productive. I suggest that asking her to take a leap of faith, even if she's scared. Just ask for one chance and if she still wants to wait longer, than that should be fine. In time she will have more courage.
I hope everything goes well!

[cherrypie36]

i want to kiss her and be able to enjoy but i can't do that if she wont kiss back :/