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I'm out to some friends, dating one of them, but I can't get over a crush on the othet - February 22nd 2013, 02:43 PM

Hi, my name is Skylar. I am in 6th grade, and on my grade there are only 2 people out. Me and my girlfriend, Abby. People aren't very accepting. I told my friend Jenna who told Mersadie, who told Paridhi. Paridhi basically lives to make my life a living hell. Now almost everyone knows. Me and my girlfriend haven't been dating long, only 2 or 3 weeks, and I still can't get over my crush on Macy. Macy knows that I am gay, and she supports me but she doesn't know I like her. Abby is super clingy, and she gets super jealous everytime I even glance at Macy. I got assigned to a project with Macy in Social Studies, and Abby and I got in a big fight over it because I wouldn't ask for a new partner because we were already half way finished. The school has tried to seperate me and Abby, by switching our schedules and moving her locker, and the classes they can't change we have to sit on seperate sides of the room. When I was going through hard times, cutting every day and attempting suicide, Abby said those are your problems I don't want to hear about them and reported me to the school. Macy helped me through it and gave me a reason to live. Now I haven't cut or attempted suicide in over a month. What do I do? Do I tell her I like her? Do I break up with Abby? This is really confusing.
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Re: I'm out to some friends, dating one of them, but I can't get over a crush on the othet - February 22nd 2013, 04:22 PM

I think Abby is not being supportive. Macy on the other hand has your back in everything. I think you should think about all your options first before doing something.


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Re: I'm out to some friends, dating one of them, but I can't get over a crush on the othet - February 22nd 2013, 04:25 PM

I agree with Daisy that one thing you should do before making any decisions is weighing the pros and cons. What are the pros and cons of breaking up with Abby or staying with her? Do the pros of breaking up with her outweigh the cons? Another thing to consider is if you are happy in your current relationship. If you're not happy in your current relationship then maybe it would be a good idea to break it off so both of you can find someone that you are happy with. There's no use in stringing it along, after all! So, put a bit of thought into it before rushing in to any decision you make. I think that putting thought into it and following your heart will go far.


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