What is really the use of dating if i may ask?

[Jordioa18]

Look, i do not mean any offence, i just need to to get this off of my mind.

I think relationship(s) are a bit BS, i mean COME ON, WHY DOES IT HAVE TO INVOLVE F*CKING DRAMA, YOU LOVE EACH OTHER, WHY ARE YOU MAKING SUCH ASSES OF THE RELATIONSHIP BY FIGHTING AND BITCHING AND MOANING AND BITCHING (And bitching x 100), seriously what is the point?

This is why relationships are kinda bullsh*t.

[Eternal]

Have you been in a relationship before?
People don't fight with their significant others on purpose. Just like no friendship is without its flaws, people will have arguments in relationships too. The problems is its easy to get a little sick of people when you're around them too much. And sometimes we don't always see eye to eye with other people and someone could start getting upset which can lead to fights.
No relationship is perfect; its something that you have to put effort into and work at.
They aren't bullshit either. Dating is so that you can see what kinds of people you work well with and so that you can take time and figure out who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Marriage is a big deal and its not like people enjoy getting divorced, so that's why we date for a long time prior. Its to get to know each other and to have fun spending time together.
You're still very young and honestly relationships tend to not even last at your age. People will mature as you grow older.

[Jordioa18]

I just think some relationships need some less bitching in my case, i HATE drama (I'm a action type of guy) and this had to get off of my chest

Also, yeah, i had a relationship 2 years ago, but it was full of bullsh*t (GF had a BF while we were dating, stupid **** )

[Moxie.]

Some people don't take relationships seriously, but that doesn't mean they're complete bull. Most people don't try to fight with their partner - it's just something that happens, just like it would in a friendship or with a member of your family. Dating really does have a purpose, though. It helps you determine what it is that you do and don't like, what kinds of things are complete deal-breakers for you, and helps you learn more about yourself. Honestly, they're good things. After all, if you want to marry one day, having a bit of experience will be good. It'll just help you know how to act in certain situations and help you determine whether or not you are choosing the right person.

[madmax0116]

From a biological perspective, it's purpose is reproduction. Jokes aside, you need to get over that crap or you'll suffer.

People are made to be together. They may fight at times but ultimately it's their mutual love and respect for each other that matters.

You had a cheating girlfriend. You're not the only one. Lots of people cheat on other people. It's horrible, but it's the truth.

Learn a lesson from this and resolve to check clearly if the person you're dating is loyal or not. There's no use going around whining about it. If you don't date, you'll miss out on an important part of life. You don't wanna do that, do you?

[Jordioa18]

Well, that might be kind of right.