ex girlfriend

[sodapop123]

So at the begining of 7th grade this girl really liked me the entire year but i was to shy to ask her out. In 8th grade i asked her out and we dated for 7 whole months. We broke up because of something stupid. She had a ton of boyfriends and was called a slut for making out wiht them alot. After that we got back togather for a couple months and then she broke up with me. i was crushed and since that day she has had alot more boyfriends.

But the thing is i still have big feelings for her and she still likes me alot to. But im in a good realationship now but i cant help looking for her in the walls or checking all the time if shes online. if i go out with her everyone will make fun of me and saying im a fool for dating a "slut" 3 times. i dont know what to do because im in a realationship but still like her.

[Eternal]

Well are your feelings stronger for your current girlfriend or your ex? If you're having feelings for someone else then usually that's a sign that you don't really like your current significant other, and that's not exactly fair for them.
I think it would be best if you just have a talk with both of them separately and in person and be honest about how you're feeling.
The thing is, if you have feelings for both girls then usually you want to go with the second girl you started liking because if you actually had feelings for the first, then you wouldn't be liking someone else as well. This doesn't always hold true, but its something to think about nonetheless.

[Dries De Vos]

I totally agree with Nicole. If you are in love with someone, you aren't really interested in other girls. But let's remember you dated her earlier. I think you should be honest with yourself. Talk to her. Talk to your girlfriend. You will understand what you really feel.

[sodapop123]

im just not sure whether or not i should go back out with the first

[Eternal]

What do you mean by the first?

[PSY]

If you're still entertaining the idea of dating your first girlfriend, then you shouldn't be with your current girlfriend. Seriously. When you're with someone, it's natural to wonder about ex-girlfriends from time to time... but if you're wondering whether or not you should ask her out again, then it shows you're not fully invested in your current relationship. That's not fair to your current girlfriend, and you need to either figure things out (quickly), or end things with your current girlfriend. It's going to hurt her, but it's going to hurt her a lot more if you string her along for a few more months, then dump her to give things with your ex-girlfriend another shot.