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Questioning sexuality

[SIZE="a"]So...I think I might be trans gay(mlm) guy. I don't know but I'm almost primarily attracted to men, and I identify as a boy. I'm pretty sure I am, but I don't know 100%. Can someone give me some advice to figure out if I am gay mlm or bisexual or something else?[/size]

Re: Questioning sexuality

Hey,

There's nothing wrong with questioning your sexuality! It can take time to figure out what label is the right fit for you, and it's also okay if you decide not to use labels at all. It's also okay if you experiment with different labels until you find the one that fits you the most. That's what I ended up doing.

If you don't think you could see yourself in a relationship or having sex with a girl it does seem like you would be gay. If you ever develop feelings for a girl you can try and see where they take you, but don't force yourself to try out having a relationship with a girl if you're not really into it. Sexuality is fluid though, so it's okay if your feelings change in the future.