Coming out as trans to my school?
 

After 2 years of obsessing over my gender, a few months ago, I came out to my dad, my school guidance counselor, and a handful of very good friends. I've been binding my chest, cut my hair, and started to wear boys clothing. So far everyone just assumes that I'm a really butch lesbian, but I'd like to be addressed as male and have my classmates know about my gender change. In the past I've been bullied a lot (mostly because people think that I'm lesbian or too shy) and I am REALLY REALLY shy with bad social anxiety. I feel like having more confidence in my body will make me a bit happier and open with people, and I can feel myself becoming more comfortable with myself already, but I wouldn't know how to come out to people. I was thinking about a Facebook status, since it is summer and I'm going to sleep away camp I'd like to let it sink in before school starts so I don't get instantly bullied. I was wondering if Facebook would be the right way to come out and what should I include in the status if I do? Thanks :D

Re: Coming out as trans to my school?
 

I don't know how far you are into school or what your school is like but I find schools to be a little brutal when it comes to orientation or gender. As you've said, you've been bullied a lot in the past and I think you coming out as trans at school will only enhance this. This isn't to put you off coming out as I understand this will make you feel far more comfortable, it's just how I view it. Overall it's your final decision and if you feel coming out at school regardless of potential bullying then go for it. :)

If you do decide you still want to come out at school you could try various ways, over Facebook like you said or you could even do it virally through asking your friends to help you out by spreading the word to their friends, and their friends spreading the word further though it'd be a matter of trust in this case.

Your idea does sound best though. :)

Re: Coming out as trans to my school?