Depression while pregnant
 

I'm 2months pregnant. My depression before the pregnancy was pretty bad and now I have to get off my medication because of harmful risks to the baby. I was just wondering how your depression was during your pregnancys. How did you handle it? Did it get better as the months went along? Another huge problem is I was reading and some women said that they were real excited about being pregnant then the depression kicked in some and now they aren't sure about having there baby and having uneasy feelings about the whole pregnancy in itself. Did you go through a phase where you questioned your feelings for your unborn baby? I'm really struggling with it and it's hard to talk with my fiance about it because he just doesn't and will never understand it and he gets upset. Which I fully understand, I get upset with myself also which leads into the chain spiral. I know I'm not alone in these feelings but can someone share there experiances... :(

Re: Depression while pregnant
 

there's lots of things that can factor into depression while being pregnant, stresses such as being financially able to afford the baby, relationship stresses, wether your pregnancy was planned or not... alot of these things can factor into how you feel while you're carrying.

I honestly didn't go through it but my best friend did, my suggestion is getting up and out as much as you can, embrace that you have a little life growing inside of you. Alot of mom's to be have those days while being pregnant where they're being hormonal and rather moody, what I found helped was going out and looking at all the neat baby stuff out there or enjoying a hot bubble bath and an afternoon to myself.

You're going to be hormonal which will make you feel like things are getting worse but they're simply the joys of pregnancy.

Re: Depression while pregnant
 

Please go back to your doctor. There are a lot of safe anti-depressants you can take while pregnant. Things you can try to help are writing in a diary or online journal, writing poetry, drawing can be theraputic, most of all, be around people who make you feel good about yourself, family and friends. Remember the blessing you have growing inside you, imagine what he or she will look like, what type of personality baby will have. But please do go speak to your doctor, there really are things you can take. You dont have to feel this way. Pregnancy makes your hormones out of whack and can make your depression stronger.

Re: Depression while pregnant
 

Re: Depression while pregnant
 

I agree with Alicia... there are safe anti-depressants you can take, so talk to your doctor.

I went through some pretty bad depression during and after my pregnancy. I was very excited to meet my son, but at the same time very depressed about it. I mostly just had a hard time wrapping my mind about the fact there was no going back. That my life was going to be different forever. On top of that, I didn't like where I was living, I was still in school, and I started questioning my relationship with my boyfriend. Somedays I really wanted to give up.

How I got through it was by focusing on bonding with my son. I read to him, planned his room and what things he still needed, talked and sung to him, picked out baby names, and just tried to get out of the house and not dwell on things. I also really looked forward to each doctors appointment. For me, it really did get easier as it went along. The more I felt pregnant, the more I loved it!

I'm not trying to scare you. but I would suggest getting back on your medication immediately after giving birth though. For me those first few months were totally overwhelming and I struggled to make it through. Having a baby was a lot more exhausting than I was expecting.

Good luck with everything, and PM me if you need to talk!