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				July 31st 2009, 06:37 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
ok, so my girlfriend could be pregnant. and its not mine cause i havent had sex with her. so that means its a 19 year olds and shes 13 and im 14. she allready missed her period so does that mean shes pregnant? shes going to take the tests today. just help me please people.
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				July 31st 2009, 06:43 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
Hey there.If she has missed her period then yes, that means she could be pregnent. How ever some times we do randomly miss periods for no reason, ir she could just be late.
Its really good that she has thought about it and is going to take the tests. Once you both know is she is or not pregnent, you will be able to talk to each other about what the next step is.
I do hope everything goes okay, and keep in touch to let us know what happens
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				July 31st 2009, 06:46 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
i dont think shes late because she missed it like two weeks ago, but she didnt tell me until about 4 days ago.
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				July 31st 2009, 07:11 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
Sometimes it takes a while for a girl to become regular, so she may have not got into a regular cycle yet, this could be the case to her not coming on when she was ment to.but there is also a possibility that she could be pregant; best thing to do is to take a test and then find out; the sooner the better.
 if it is the case that she is pregnant, then you'll all need to sit down and talk about what should happen next.
 
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				July 31st 2009, 07:41 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
A missed period is often indicative of pregnancy...HOWEVER, can also mean that she's been heavily stressed. You won't know for sure until she's taken a pregnancy test. And I hate to pry, but what is your girlfriend doing sleeping with another guy?
 In any case, I sincerely hope that everything turns out 'okay.' Good luck! :3
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				July 31st 2009, 07:49 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
There are a lot of reasons why a girl might miss a period. Yes, pregnancy is one of those reasons. So if she's had sex with someone, it's possible that she's pregnant. But the only way for her to really know is to take a test.
  
            
               
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				July 31st 2009, 07:51 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
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					Originally Posted by charmbraceletxo   And I hate to pry, but what is your girlfriend doing sleeping with another guy? |  yeah, was this before or after you became her boyfriend?
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				July 31st 2009, 10:45 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
Yes, it's possible she's pregnant ONLY if shes been having sex.  A girl can miss her period for any reason.  It may be b/c she's stressing about the unknown pregnancy or if she's just started having them then it takes time for them to adjust and become regular...you'll have to wait for the test to know for sure.  When she takes the test make sure she doesn't drink a lot of water before taking it or it can dilute the results.
  
            
               
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				August 1st 2009, 12:56 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
Good luck, dude. Sounds like you really care about her, so stick with her and be a friend. If she's pregnant, it's going to be a majorly stressful time, so be there for her and don't condemn her but help her through it.
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				August 1st 2009, 03:51 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
its possible like everyone else said, but it may also be the stress of wondering wether she is or not.watch some episodes of 16 & Pregnant on MTV
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				August 1st 2009, 10:09 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
She needs to take a test or go to a clinic.
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				August 4th 2009, 05:16 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
Take a test ASAP! But why is she 13 and having sex? Thats kinda young don't ya think?
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				August 4th 2009, 05:38 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
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					Originally Posted by miss_neverland09  Take a test ASAP! But why is she 13 and having sex? Thats kinda young don't ya think? |  It is really, but what would be a good age? 
 
Yes it is possible she is pregnant, my baby sister got pregnant just shy of her 13th birthday. You say you are not the father if she is, so what will you do if she is?
  
            
               
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				August 4th 2009, 09:54 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
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					Originally Posted by SuburbanTiger7  yeah, was this before or after you became her boyfriend? |  it was before. and she took the test and shes not.
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				August 5th 2009, 12:18 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
yay! she's not pregnant!
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				August 5th 2009, 01:18 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
thats good news!
  
            
               
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				August 6th 2009, 06:57 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
Congrats on not being a step dad!
  
            
               
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				August 7th 2009, 03:31 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
well that's good. She's way too young to be having a baby right now. She needs to be able to live her life without kids for awhile still lol.
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				August 10th 2009, 03:32 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
it is possible she is pregnant. But when girls are that young their periods are usually really irregular. 
Try to stay calm. Be supportive. 
 
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				August 10th 2009, 02:43 PM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
I'd suggest your girlfriend get on birthcontrol ASAP if she's going to be fooling around, you don't want to relive this.
  
            
               
  
 
 
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				August 11th 2009, 09:41 AM
			
			
			
		 
               
 
I believe this thread has run it's course, so closey closey time    
            
               
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 22:36 [Ergg] It's so much better to be a girl
 22:36 [Ergg] IMO
 22:36 [Jamie] Naw. Two words: Periods. Childbirth.
 22:36 [Ergg] One word: Birth control
 22:37 [Jamie] That's two words.
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