Female Advice Preferred: Scared, and might be pregnant

[jessica2000]

Hi, I'm jess, and one of the only reasons why I joined this site is because last week, my boyfriend and I had a bit of unprotected sex. Scince then I can't help but worry if I'm pregnant. We usually use protection, but i've basically missed my period for two months now, like, even before we had unprotected sex. (I have a very unregular schedual).

Last month, in Febuary, I bled but not like period blood, but it bled alot, and I got a bunch of blood randomly in the middle of the day for about to weeks.

But this month I'm terrified. I really don't know what to do, and the thing is that im not stupid.. but I really don't know what to do here.

My parents hate my boyfriend anyways, and I don't want to be forcibly seperated from him because of an accident.


forgive me if i have this in the wrong section, I'm new to this site, and if you have any information to help, please help me

[Teddie575]

I don't know how helpful I'll be, but I'm going to try my best. My older sister had a problem sort of like this a few years ago.
First things first, relax. Whatever is going to happen is going to happen and there's a reason for everything.
Second, I would confide in someone close that's not your parents, maybe a friend or sibling. Get everything off your chest. After that, you may want to look online for some early signs of pregnancy. That should ultimately give you an idea as of where to go next.
If you really think you are pregnant, you are going to have to tell your parents at some point. My sister went through this. She was very worried as to what our parents would do, but the bottom line is, they will love you no matter what.
I hope this was helpful. Remember, one day at a time. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you.

[Apple Orchard Ghost]

If it's been two weeks since the last time you had sex, take a pregnancy test. If three end up positive, then you need to go to the doctor and find out if you are actually pregnant. That's the only way you'll be able to tell for sure.

I'd suggest you'd look online for signs of pregnancy and/or take a pregnancy test. If it's positive, you should see a doctor.

Stay positive and don't stress over it. X

Hey there,

I think that the best thing you can do is to take a pregnancy test. You said that it has been two months since you've last had your period which is kind of concerning. However, it can be common for people to have irregular cycles when they are young. So, go to your local store and get a pregnancy test and take two weeks after the time you have had unprotected sex and see what the results say. If you do turn out to be pregnant I would suggest that you go to the doctor and look into what your options are and go from there. This is definitely a scary situation to be in but you will be able to figure it out.

If you turn out to not be pregnant I would definitely look into what options you have available in regards to birth control. Getting on some form of birth control would probably be in your best interest if you are going to continue being sexually active with your boyfriend.