did i get my gf pregnant ?

[ryu145]

the other day my gf and i were fooling around and she gave me a hand job , and quite obviously i ejaculated , had some of the cum on my hand so i washed it and then i fingered her ; had my fingers in her vagina for a about a few seconds , is there any chance that i got her pregnant ?

[taylalatbh.]

The chances are slim to none. If you washed your hands, they were probably clean enough before you touched her. Even so, semen dries up after a short time and becomes useless (for it's intended purpose). So the chances really are very low. If you're still concerned, she could take a morning after pill (if it's been less than three days since) or else you can wait until her next period is due. After two weeks, she can take a pregnancy test if you're still worried but you chances are low.

[ryu145]

the things is that i did wash my hands bt not thoroughly and i fingered 20-25 minutes after washing my hands , so what chances are still there for anything to happen?

[Lizzie]

I agree that there is basically no chance that she will get pregnant after you washed your hands and twenty minutes went by. And if you are worried about that kind of thing in the future, you can always start with her and then finish with you. That way there is no opportunity for sperm to get anywhere near her.

[ryu145]

thank you guys so much , i was extremely worried

[ryu145]

i'm still worried a little bit , had a talk with my gf recently and she told me that she was experiencing pain in the right side of her abdomen and her back , does this mean anything?

[Lizzie]

If the pain doesn’t go away in a few hours I would suggest she see a doctor. Not because I think she is pregnant, but because lower right abdominal pain can be a sign of appendicitis or some other GI time problem. Anytime she feels like something is abnormal and she is in pain she should speak to a medical professional.

[taylalatbh.]

I agree with Lizzie above. The pain more than likely isn't related to a pregnancy, but if she's unwell she should see a doctor. It's not likely to have any pregnancy symptoms just yet.

[ryu145]

guys i'm still a bit worried , i just had a tallk again with my gf today and she told me that the pain still persists and she even vomited today .. and yeah she hasnt consulted a doctor yet and i'm totally freaking out with this pregnancy thing , oh! one more thing she even told me that the pain in her stomach incurs only when she does something physical..

[taylalatbh.]

Again, chances are that she's not pregnant. Pregnancy signs wouldn't show this early on. It definitely does seem like there is something wrong with her though, so she needs to see a doctor fairly soon to make sure she's okay. I would advise that you encourage her to see a doctor.

[ryu145]

Originally Posted by taylalatbh.

Again, chances are that she's not pregnant. Pregnancy signs wouldn't show this early on. It definitely does seem like there is something wrong with her though, so she needs to see a doctor fairly soon to make sure she's okay. I would advise that you encourage her to see a doctor.

chances? .. nothing for sure?

[taylalatbh.]

I can't be 100%, obviously. But even if there was any ejaculate left on your hands, after you had washed them, it would have been useless. And since you weren't inside her for that long the chances are very, very low. The only thing you (well, your girlfriend) can do is take a pregnancy test 14 days after the incident, or wait until her next period arrives.

Try not to stress.

[ryu145]

Originally Posted by taylalatbh.

I can't be 100%, obviously. But even if there was any ejaculate left on your hands, after you had washed them, it would have been useless. And since you weren't inside her for that long the chances are very, very low. The only thing you (well, your girlfriend) can do is take a pregnancy test 14 days after the incident, or wait until her next period arrives.

Try not to stress.

thanks

[ryu145]

she has vomited thrice in the past 13 days and has had headaches twice so far .. she'll be going to a doctor tomorrow , but still if nothing has happened then is she having all these problems? are these the symptoms of pregnancy?

[Lizzie]

Those are symptoms of pregnancy. But she would not be far enough along to being showing signs of pregnancy yet.

Those are also signs of stress, the flu and a multitude of other problems. I am glad she has a doctors appointment, they should be able to clarify what's going on.

[ryu145]

Originally Posted by Lizzie

Those are symptoms of pregnancy. But she would not be far enough along to being showing signs of pregnancy yet.

Those are also signs of stress, the flu and a multitude of other problems. I am glad she has a doctors appointment, they should be able to clarify what's going on.

she didnt go to the doctor today , cancelled her appointment no matter how much i convinced her, she had made up her mind that she would consult a doctor only after her periods , apart from all this i actually came across something on the internet regarding " SYMPTOMS BEFORE PERIODS" .. and everything that i've mentioned so far in the post regarding her vomiting , pain in the right side of the stomach , headache all of this comes under "SYMPTOMS BEFORE PERIODS" , so could it be that all these symptoms that are popping out of no where are an indication of the fact that her periods might be near?

[taylalatbh.]

They could be. But as said before, these symptoms could signify many different things. If you or she are worried about there being any potential illnesses then she needs to see a doctor. As for being pregnant, waiting around for her period is a good idea, and if it is late or doesn't come at all, take a pregnancy test.

[ryu145]

Like you guys know about all the symptoms that my girlfriend had been experiencing , none of them persist anymore apart from some mild headache now and then. So the thing is that she is expecting to have her periods by today or maybe in couple of days and she hasn't consulted any doctor as of yet , but this mild headache is quite consistent so what could this be?
and yeah i had some sort of an argument with her about a few days ago and she was stressing on this entire thing a lot so i presumed that the entire headache thing was related to this, but now that i sorted things out with her ,the headache still persists ...

[Lizzie]

The headache, like you said, could easily be caused by stress. Try to just relax and see if her period comes, other than seeing a doctor or taking a pregnancy test, that is your only option right now.

[ryu145]

food craving during pregnancy is to a particular food item or does it vary , does a women become cranky or starts cribbing if she doesn't get what she wants ?
and how often does a women experience food craving towards some food item , i mean is it regularly or it alternates between days or happens every hour ; i know it might vary from person to person but i just wanna know a general answer for this

[Lizzie]

I had food cravings when I wasn't pregnant, especially if I was about to get my period. I would not take that as a sign of pregnancy as a lot of women experience that outside of pregnancy.

[ryu145]

having a white discharge and that accompanied with itching and pain , what could it mean?
my gf had it this friday...

[Lizzie]

White discharge is normal and healthy throughout a woman’s normal cycle. But since she is also experiencing itchiness and pain she might have an infection as that is not normal. I recommend that she see a doctor to get that checked out. But in case you are wondering, itchiness and pain would not be related to pregnancy.

[ryu145]

so having a white jelly like discharge is normal but it being accompanied with pain , itching , discomfort and some foul odor is a sign of some sort of an infection?

[taylalatbh.]

Originally Posted by ryu145

so having a white jelly like discharge is normal but it being accompanied with pain , itching , discomfort and some foul odor is a sign of some sort of an infection?

This sounds a lot like an infection. It's a really good idea that your girlfriend gets checked out by a doctor if she's having these issues.

[ryu145]

so this has got not nothing to do with pregnancy , right ?

[taylalatbh.]

Highly unlikely. As far as I'm aware you can have some discharge when you're pregnant, but this sounds much more likely to be an infection.

It's been 17 days since you first posted this thread. Your girlfriend can take a pregnancy test now and it will be able to show a result. Given what happened during the sexual encounter you mentioned in your first post, I still stand by the fact that her chances of being pregnant are very, very slim, but you can take a test now and you will have an answer.

The symptoms that she is having: the pain, discharge, discomfort and itching can all be signs of an infection so it's very important she she sees a doctor to get it sorted out for her health.

There's not much more we can advise you on for this topic, other than what I've mentioned above. I hope things go well when she takes a pregnancy test and sees a doctor.

[ryu145]

what time of the day would be the best to take a pregnancy test , its just that gf has finally agreed to take one , and she hasnt had anything since morning but a glass of milk , so can she take on the same day at latter time? or the next day ?

[Lelola]

If it's white discharge and it's itchy, then it is probably an infection. However, we cannot say for sure whether she is pregnant or not or if it is indeed an infection because we cannot see her nor can we run tests on her.

First thing in the morning is the best. She can eat and drink normally but she doesn't want to overdrink beforehand because then the urine could be too dilute. If she takes it in the morning or waits a few hours before going, then she should be fine. However, how close is she to her next period? The odds of her being pregnant from possibly some sperm on your hand after you washed it is slim.

By the way, I don't recommend having any sexual contact without some sort of barrier until she gets herself looked at if she is having itchiness, pain, and white discharge. The last thing you'd want is a fungal infection on your mouth or penis.

[ryu145]

Originally Posted by Sarasa

If it's white discharge and it's itchy, then it is probably an infection. However, we cannot say for sure whether she is pregnant or not or if it is indeed an infection because we cannot see her nor can we run tests on her.

First thing in the morning is the best. She can eat and drink normally but she doesn't want to overdrink beforehand because then the urine could be too dilute. If she takes it in the morning or waits a few hours before going, then she should be fine. However, how close is she to her next period? The odds of her being pregnant from possibly some sperm on your hand after you washed it is slim.

By the way, I don't recommend having any sexual contact without some sort of barrier until she gets herself looked at if she is having itchiness, pain, and white discharge. The last thing you'd want is a fungal infection on your mouth or penis.

she was expecting her periods by the third of this month , but it has been delayed.. and she took a test today in which she got 1 dark like and one extremely faint line..? further more all the symptoms that she has had , that i've posted in earlier in this thread has got me a little worried and i feel that she might be having ectopic pregnancy.

i read on google that no matter if it's a faint line or a dark line it means that she's pregnant , it's just that the test kit was not sensitive enough to pick the hormonal level and what is freaking me out even more is that how could she get pregnant through the encounter that we had because my hands were literally dry and i had touched so many other thing with the same hand before i fingered her , even wiped my hand twice .. i i fingered her after a gap of 30-40 minutes ..

and the way through which i got sperm on my right hand fingers was that , after i had ejaculated in my boxers i went to the bathroom to pee and i touched my penis tip of fingers in that process , washed my hands after this (not thoroughly though) and wiped them ..

[Lizzie]

She needs to take another test. It’s true that if she got a faint line that still counts as a positive. But you are right; she should have not gotten pregnant from the encounter your described. If she gets a second positive pregnancy test, she needs to see a doctor.

In fact, from the symptoms you are describing she needs to see a doctor either way to make sure she doesn't have an infection; they can do a pregnancy test at the doctor’s office as well. That is her best and safest option right now.

[ryu145]

ok so she got her periods today and quite honestly i'm extremely relieved :-) :-) , but the headache is still there , could this be due to the infection?
P.S- Thanks for the help , i really, really appreciate it . :-D

[Lizzie]

I’m sorry, but we aren’t medical doctors and cannot tell if you symptom A equals illness B. We just can’t. If she is still worried she needs to see a doctor. That’s all the advice we can give you on that. Glad to hear that she got her period, hopefully now the both of you can start to relax a bit.

[Lelola]

Originally Posted by ryu145

she was expecting her periods by the third of this month , but it has been delayed.. and she took a test today in which she got 1 dark like and one extremely faint line..? further more all the symptoms that she has had , that i've posted in earlier in this thread has got me a little worried and i feel that she might be having ectopic pregnancy.

i read on google that no matter if it's a faint line or a dark line it means that she's pregnant , it's just that the test kit was not sensitive enough to pick the hormonal level and what is freaking me out even more is that how could she get pregnant through the encounter that we had because my hands were literally dry and i had touched so many other thing with the same hand before i fingered her , even wiped my hand twice .. i i fingered her after a gap of 30-40 minutes ..

and the way through which i got sperm on my right hand fingers was that , after i had ejaculated in my boxers i went to the bathroom to pee and i touched my penis tip of fingers in that process , washed my hands after this (not thoroughly though) and wiped them ..

Well, you should follow what the manufacture says regarding faint lines. Most do say that it is a positive and recommends retesting at a later date.

As for a headache, headache is a very vague symptom. A lot of things can cause headaches. It could be as simple as stress or dehydration to something more serious. We cannot assess her on the internet and diagnosis what it could be.

[ryu145]

A little update , she took a test again and this time it came out negative earlier when she had taken the test she was under some medication be her gynec for her periods so i'm quite sure that the test was influenced through the medicine but this time it came out to be negative, so this means she aint pregnant right ? but she continues to have this stomach pain , headache and discharge ?why?
P.S:- we actually broke up so i am not really able to convince her to go to the doctor and yeah one more thing from the past few days she has been having fever and normal cough and cold , so i presume all the tiredness that she has been experiencing in these past few days is because of it?

[taylalatbh.]

Again, we can't tell you what these symptoms mean. If she's concerned about her health, or about whether she could be pregnant and you're not 100% on the home pregnancy tests then she needs to see a doctor.

I'm sorry to hear that you've broken up. But if you're still concerned that she could be carrying your child you'll want to know sooner rather than later.