please help might be pregnant!!

[Jasmine96]

ok im 16 and very terrified that i am pregnant, i havent taken any pregnancy tests yet cause idk if im early or not me and my boyfriend had sex a week ago without using a condom but he would pull out every 5 seconds to make sure he wouldnt pre came and then a minute or two we would make sure he was dry before he put in back in and did it again for another 5 seconds and then we stopped but what i didnt know was that i was ovulating at the time sooo im very terrified at this moment two days ago white stuff was on my underwear and yesterday i was cramping bad but there was no other symptoms my stomach feels 100% better today and there is no other symptoms im scared ive never had to worry about anything like this in my life so if someone can please help or has experienced anything similar i would appreciate some advice

[Adam the Fish]

Hey there,

I would really suggest calming down.

Whilst it's perhaps possible that you're pregnant, it's quite unlikely. Wait until you can do a pregnancy test - and then you'll know for certain. Again, I'll emphasise, pregnancy is possible but unlikely.

I would also like to say that the "pull out" method is not an effective method of birth control and that you should not rely on it because of the risks it poses.
It is always advisable to use a combination of both a condom and The Pill.
If you can't get any form of contraception, such as a condom, you should hold off having penetrative sex until you are able to.

I wish you the best of luck - get a pregnancy test if you're worried, but try not to be too panicky.

[Jasmine96]

ok thank you but will i start getting symptoms on the 1st week after having sex?

[Coffee.]

Originally Posted by Jasmine96

ok thank you but will i start getting symptoms on the 1st week after having sex?

No, you would not.

[Jasmine96]

oh well why did i have white stuff and bad cramping? and im suppose to have my period next week?

[Lizzie]

The white stuff could just be normal vaginal discharge and the cramping could be the fact that your period is due next week. There is nothing you can do now but wait to see if you get your period.

Please also remember in the future to use birth control. Whatever "method" he was using will not protect you against pregnancy. A man can not stop himself from leaking sperm before ejaculation.

[Jasmine96]

alright what does vaginal discharge particularly mean? and i normaly dont have cramps before my period?

[Lizzie]

Here is more information on vaginal discharge:
http://women.webmd.com/guide/vaginal...whats-abnormal

Sometimes periods can be different from one another, sometimes you will have cramps and other times you won’t. It’s not uncommon for a woman to be complaining of cramps before her period. The cramps would not be pregnancy related if you only had sex a week ago, it’s just too soon for pregnancy symptoms.

If you really think your cramps are abnormal for your cycle, sometimes abnormal cramps can be a sign of an STD. Since you did not use protection, did you ask your partner if they have been tested for STDs before? I think this is something you should talk to him about to make sure this isn’t the case. If he has never been tested, I highly recommend that you now get yourself tested at your doctor’s office.

[Jasmine96]

OMG!! thank you soo much i feel so much better and relieved me and my partner made sure we both didnt have any type of STD or anything so we clerifyed on that but should i still recommand a pregnancy test? or am i just head over heels about this situation?

[Lizzie]

If you don't get your period next week I suggest taking a pregnancy test. You can take one 14 days after you had sex.