could i be pregnant??

[br.94]

i was supposed to get my period last week but i"m late and my fiance and i have been having unprotected sex and i was spotting week before last and it was only for like a day and a half what do you all think?? please please help.. i'm so scared

[Harmony♥]

It's hard to tell. Of course, there is a chance of pregnancy because you've been having unprotected sex with your fiance. Whenever you engage in sexual intercourse, there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy, even if you take precautions to protect yourself against it.

If you're worried you might be pregnant, buy a pregnancy test. Buy a few, since you've had unprotected sex so often, it's hard to tell when you may have conceived, and pregnancy tests are only accurate if taken two weeks from the time you had intercourse.

[Always *]

I know how scared you must be, and I'm not just saying that to be comforting, I can genuinely relate. You should definitely get a pregnancy test, if you feel like you need to do it in private, then take it to somewhere where you can be alone. It'll be ok, until you get a positive feed back on the test, then it will still be ok, you'll just need time to calm down and work out what to do. Not saying that it'll be positive, just that it's normal to be scared when you're finding out you may possibly be pregnant unintentionally

[br.94]

i know there is always a chance we just didnt think that i'd get pregnant because i take the pill but i have heard several people here lately say that the pill doesnt always work. we just never thought that we could never get pregnant because i take my pill everyday. i have never missed one... but since i have started taking the pill i have never been late. and last week i was supposed to get my period but i never got it. i'm scared... he said when he gets paid that he'll buy me a test if i still think i'm pregnant.. i just have a funny feeling.. :/

[Siren❤]

If you are on the pill and taking it as regularly as you can, there is a very small chance that you could be pregnant. However if you've missed a period a test would probably be accurate enough by now. Good luck

[br.94]

i do take my pill everyday.. but i am also taking 2 other meds. one for my arthritis and the other for my diabetes. and the medicine i take for my diabetes, some people take to help them get pregnant. soo idk what i should do :/

[Maloo]

You should take a pregnancy test to find out if you're pregnant.

[br.94]

the thing is im only 17 i still live with my parents. but my fince lives here too. we do not share a room... but atm i am grouned for pot..(but that happened over 3 weeks ago. and we have stopped using it) and i have no way to actually get one.. =/

[Maloo]

Your fiancee or a friend couldn't get one for you?

[br.94]

my fiancee could but we cant go to town until he gets paid and like i have no real friends that i can talk to.. thats why i get on here and get advice because other than my fiancee i really have noone that i can truely talk to about things like this.

[Always *]

Well, how long will it be until your fiancé can get into town? Cause another week or 2 won't end the world. If you need to talk, PM me ok.

[br.94]

maybe friday.. if not then it'll be monday..

[br.94]

what site can i actually find all of the pregnancy symptoms on? because i'd like to see how many other symptoms i have other than just a missed period...thanks to everyone who has helped me

[lauri]

You can look at symptoms all you want BUT ITS POINTLESS AND NOT GOING TO DO ANYTHING. If you want to know for sure get a pregnancy test as soon as you can.

[br.94]

im gonna get one today i will let you all know what it says

[br.94]

my test come back negative.. i think i may take another one in a week or so just to make sure i have nothing to worry about

[Coffee.]

Hey Beth,

I'm glad it came back negative! That's probably a relief off your mind. Next time, I would recommend you use protection so that you do not have this worry about this anymore. For more information about different ways of protection, check out this thread. I hope that helps, feel free to PM me if you ever need!

[br.94]

thank you very much traci. you are so kind

[Always *]

You should consider going on the pill or other type of female contraceptive if you have free health care and/or insurance that'll cover it (or even try to do it any how, you could go to a free clinic). It would definitely prevent another scare . If you want to talk about the diff kinds of birth control, PM me ok