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March 31st 2009, 08:43 PM
Not sure if this is PG-13 or not...
But what do you masturbate to? Porn? Pictures of someone? Thoughts? Fantasies? Videos? Just curious.
I masturbate usually to sex fantasies of my significant other... always finish good and quick. 
Another question: Do you always masturbate to finish? Or just play with yourself a little sometimes?
I always finish. Doesn't really have a point unless climax is reached in my opinion, and I usually only do it once a day. 
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March 31st 2009, 08:49 PM
Your display picture makes this really creepy!
But porn videos, text or a few times I masturbated in-front of a girl while she masturbated, then when I got like half way off she sucked me and I ate her out.
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March 31st 2009, 09:13 PM
I masturbate to Happy Hardcore Music.
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March 31st 2009, 09:40 PM
Normally? Romance/erotic stories or novel, if I use anything to provoke it. Fantasies work wonders, too.
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March 31st 2009, 09:46 PM
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I masturbate to Happy Hardcore Music.
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Oooo touchy subject! Porn, no vids (I use my phone), no hardcore stuff though in fairness some of it is kinda wierd . I could never get off to thoughts.... Sometimes though I sorta imagine someone I know in that position (and as always you will find models who look like people you know!  )
Straught to the end. The climax gets rid of a lot of the tension and the thoughts. Also I'm under the impression that it's better not to stop, and I usually wait till I'm perfectly aroused to start masturbating.
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April 1st 2009, 01:09 AM
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Your display picture makes this really creepy!
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Hahaha I hadn't thought of that... 
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April 1st 2009, 02:07 AM
fantasies 
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April 1st 2009, 04:15 AM
Hmmm Fantasies, Porn, Stories, Thoughts would be it for me lol.
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April 1st 2009, 04:22 AM
Hmm...definately fantasies.
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April 1st 2009, 04:23 AM
usually like fantasies. I've stopped with videos and pics and stuff
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April 1st 2009, 05:01 AM
call me weird, but I don't really think while masturbating, I just focus on sensation, the building and peaking of it. I get the turned on part beforehand by talking to someone or watching something, but the actual act of masturbation is performed with complete focus.
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April 1st 2009, 05:19 AM
Sometimes I don't think (kind of like absent minded whatevering), sometimes I entertain fantasies. Very rarely do I watch/read pornography.. and I'm pretty sure I always finish though I mean, it could be variable lengths of time with multiple sessions.
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April 1st 2009, 08:25 AM
Well... depends on what's available at the time. Sometimes softcore pictures, sex scenes/nudity in movies, porn videos, fantasies or erotic text/stories.
I masturbate from 1-5 times a day. Always to finish unless I'm interrupted. One exception being I'll sometimes do it as I go to sleep without the intention of ever finishing.
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April 1st 2009, 04:50 PM
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April 1st 2009, 05:19 PM
Mostly I use fantasys (spank bank in guy terms) and that works for me. Porn doesn't really do it for me. Because stuff like a business meeting turning into sex usually doesn't happen in real life, so that throws me off. I tried it once with music (wasn't intentional) and that was pretty good, but it wasn't speed metal because its hard to keep up with the beat.
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April 2nd 2009, 02:37 AM
I use fantasies to get revved up, but can't continue with them when actually masturbating as it is too distracting. I'm like a couple others who have already posted, I just focus on the feeling.
It's strange but porn is a huge turn off to me and stories I just find funny. X)
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April 2nd 2009, 09:07 AM
Either fantasies or erotic stories. Pictures do nothing for me.
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April 2nd 2009, 09:59 AM
Mostly fantasies or porn. Sometimes I won't think about anything (this is usually when I masturbate before bed or when I have been masturbating way to much  ). On a special occasion I'll masturbate to erotic stories and every so often I'll masturbate while looking at a non-erotic photo (just like a normal picture of a guy I am crushing on). I like to switch it up cause I masturbate a lot and things tend to get semi boring easily.
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April 2nd 2009, 11:26 AM
Fantasies mostly.
But occasionally i'd use erotic stories.
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April 2nd 2009, 05:43 PM
pictures and stories.
In the greater cosmic scheme of things, does it really matter?
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April 2nd 2009, 06:45 PM
To be truthful Im not the one to masterbate that often... But when I do I masterbate to fantasys of what me and my boyfriend would get up to or dirty talking... It all depends how good the fantasy has become and how turned on I am if I masterbate to play or finish
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April 2nd 2009, 06:57 PM
Im horny reading this post about how others masturbate 
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April 2nd 2009, 07:56 PM
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I tried it once with music (wasn't intentional) and that was pretty good, but it wasn't speed metal because its hard to keep up with the beat.
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That's one to try! Reminds me of Trent Reznor talking about Year Zero
"It is very tedious describing your own music.
It's not just music.
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You can dance to a lot of it.
You can fuck to a lot of it (maybe all of it depending on what you're into)"
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April 3rd 2009, 04:46 AM
Thoughts/memories mainly. Occasionally fantasies. Generally of the same person
And yeah, i have to finish. Because i get real horny once i start and i need to 'extinguish' that or I won't feel comfortable.
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April 3rd 2009, 08:41 PM
Haha. Anything works for me. I have also just discovered music. Speed metal is good!! Especially 'Hate Me' By 'Children of Bodom' lol
But yea, I like erotic stories too. Well anything i guess, Im easy lol
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Re: What do you masturbate to? -
April 6th 2009, 02:36 AM
Most of the time... nothing! I just think about it. The building up, and the climax!!
Sometimes... fantasies. I won't go into detail.
Rarely, porn videos. They do get me horny, I just don't need them.
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April 6th 2009, 04:03 AM
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call me weird, but I don't really think while masturbating, I just focus on sensation, the building and peaking of it. I get the turned on part beforehand by talking to someone or watching something, but the actual act of masturbation is performed with complete focus.
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I'm the exact same way. My best orgasms, from masturbation & from sex, happen when I don't think about anything except how it feels. Not to say that I don't also feel a special closeness with my boyfriend when we're having sex.
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April 6th 2009, 04:09 AM
Fantasies do it for me.
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April 6th 2009, 05:31 AM
call me weird, but the thought of masturbating does it for me.
I know. Redundant.
Well..that and fantasies.
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April 6th 2009, 06:16 AM
Oh I forgot to add my secret masturbation fetish: Anime porn.
I don't ever watch anime but something about massive cartoon boobs turns me on.
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April 6th 2009, 09:03 PM
I also don't think while I masturbate, hehe. :P beforehand I get all hyped up on stories and fantasies, and after that I just ride the sensation out.
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April 8th 2009, 03:21 AM
Fantasies or porn.
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April 8th 2009, 09:21 AM
The power of the imagination!
On very rare occassion - erotic literature, but generally just me and my thoughts.
Music is good, i'lll have to agree with who said HappyHardcore..
I like listening to trance or general trippy music whilst i masturbate.
Haha, and i hope it covers the buzzing sound 
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April 8th 2009, 04:58 PM
I use my fantasies mostly but I have to agree with scout on this one! anime porn is great, mainly because they do some hardcore things I like that you cant find in normal porn...its too soft and boring for me most of it.
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April 8th 2009, 10:09 PM
Usually pics, but fantasies are the best.
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April 8th 2009, 10:10 PM
Fantasy :P Or stories my ex would tell me!
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April 8th 2009, 10:11 PM
I tend to think about past experiences with my fiance.. that and fantasies.. but mostly past experiences..
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April 8th 2009, 10:39 PM
Fantasies are a big one for me. Yup they usually do the trick. Music too. Sometimes, I will read a story, but my imagination is so much better
It never fails, I finish completely satisfied.
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I've never tried with music. I quite like that song (and band as a whole) though, so maybe I'll give it a try
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April 10th 2009, 12:29 AM
Fantasies...you're in complete control then!!  Music does help as well.
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