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monkuar December 7th 2009 10:00 PM
Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
Hi, lol im 6'3 and im a big guy.. im very athletic ima pitcher for my highschool varsity team and waiting to go pro..

But i am 17.. i turn 18 in march 2010.. but like i started to just get really attractive and obsessive with girls.. lol is this part of maybe a late mental puberty? i mean what is latest start for puberty ever? cause i think i am just starting... it's reallly hard i get rlly attracted, not physically.. but like mentally (Like a long life relationship with that girl) "imaging that girl and placing her in every spot in ur phantaziing of a perfect life" not like sex or w/e but like if ur in bed, u want to cuddle.. just cuddle with her u know.. it's weird ... nothing sexual tho like a long life relationship im getting feeling of this with only 1 girl right now but im sure more will come... ima christian so im waiting for tat 1 right one...

but is puberty starting late or what? lol

♥Bliz December 7th 2009 10:04 PM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
You put this under spoliers? Lol. Well I've never heard of this late of a puberty begining, perhaps the first girls that you like? or is it just almost all the girls you see?

monkuar December 7th 2009 10:11 PM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kmn483 (Post 279976)
You put this under spoliers? Lol. Well I've never heard of this late of a puberty begining, perhaps the first girls that you like? or is it just almost all the girls you see?
first girl i've actually have a crush on..

icedoverfire December 7th 2009 11:04 PM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
I don't think it's late "mental puberty", necessarily.... It may have been the case that before this point you were busy with stuff (speculating - from the detail that you're a varsity athlete) that you never really had a chance to think about girls in that way.

And it's not necessarily the case that when someone's going through puberty that they're excessively horny and attracted to whatever girl they see... case in point my little bro is 16 obviously going thru puberty/adolescence and I haven't seen any behavior like that.

Best,

-ice

no.ordinary.dreamer December 7th 2009 11:07 PM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
its not really mental puberty
it is actually pretty normal. when you are getting ready to go to college you start to think about your future more and who you want in your life.
its totally normal to start wanting a girl in a mental way.

so dont worry this is just part of growing up

monkuar December 8th 2009 12:33 AM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
Sweet, Thanks..u guys are right. Now i need to buy a new set of clothes, lol these jocks sock

Leo December 8th 2009 05:38 AM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by monkuar (Post 279974)
Hi, lol im 6'3 and im a big guy.. im very athletic ima pitcher for my highschool varsity team and waiting to go pro..

But i am 17.. i turn 18 in march 2010.. but like i started to just get really attractive and obsessive with girls.. lol is this part of maybe a late mental puberty? i mean what is latest start for puberty ever? cause i think i am just starting... it's reallly hard i get rlly attracted, not physically.. but like mentally (Like a long life relationship with that girl) "imaging that girl and placing her in every spot in ur phantaziing of a perfect life" not like sex or w/e but like if ur in bed, u want to cuddle.. just cuddle with her u know.. it's weird ... nothing sexual tho like a long life relationship im getting feeling of this with only 1 girl right now but im sure more will come... ima christian so im waiting for tat 1 right one...

but is puberty starting late or what? lol
in my opinon its rare for guys to meet a girl they can picture sharing a life with when they are young.

Jaguar December 8th 2009 10:12 PM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
I agree. You sound pretty normal to me.

You can cuddle and be a Christian too, so that sounds like a good thing to do.

monkuar December 8th 2009 11:46 PM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Jaguar (Post 280467)
I agree. You sound pretty normal to me.

You can cuddle and be a Christian too, so that sounds like a good thing to do.
Can't wait for that perfect girl, thx everyone.

Hollifire December 9th 2009 03:23 PM
Re: Really Late Mental Puberty?
 
OP is satisfied with the responses given, so I'm going to close this now.
If you have any questions, or wish for this to be reopened, feel free to PM me. (:


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