Showering together

[niente_]

My boyfriend suggested that we have a shower together ... I really wanna, no danger of falling over or anything because we have ensuite wet rooms in our halls of residence.

I just wouldn't really know what to do :/

I mean I guess we'd kiss and cuddle and stuff ... which would lead to other stuff (hopefully out of the shower) I just wouldn't know what else to do in there

Oh and is he actually gnna expect me to wash him ... lol it sounds stupid but i'm not sure.

We're not gonna do it for a while yet so I've got some time to think about it. I wanna wait until I'm back on the pill.

Any advice or tips would be good thanks x

[Elizabeth]

Maybe you can give him head in the shower. I'm not sure if your relationship has gone this far, but I'm assuming its serious, because you getting naked together.
Whatever you do, be careful. Once my boyfriend tried to tickle me and I thought I was going to break my neck.
Another cute thing to do is cuddle together while drying off. I would get an extra large towel, like a big beach towel, so you both can be together in it.
Have fun!

[taylalatbh.]

I do it with my boyfriend all the time, as well as baths too. Maybe he just wants to be naked with you, and have the opportunity to bubble you up. It could lead to something more sexual, but don't do anything you're not comfortable with. And if you want, you could just say that you'd rather take it back to your room to continue with.

Take care.

[TheBabyEater]

My boyfriend and I havn't actually done it yet, but he really wants to.
So I would do what I did, and next time he brings it up, talk to him about it!
I told mine that in the shower I actually want to like. Wash my hair and stuff (i seriously cannot go a day without showering and getting clean and stuff. it's rather pathetic actually) and he said he actually wanted to as well. Which surprised me. I thought he just wanted to have sex in the shower or something.
He said that we'd probably snuggle, joke around, actually wash our hair and soap up and such. And it may or may not lead to sex later. knowing us we'd probably splash eachother and wrestle in the shower and possibly accidentaly hit our heads and kill ourselves before having sex in the shower. lol (we act like 5 year olds, yes. but i love it)

So I would talk to him about it, even if it's in a joking way. That's how I talk to mine most of the time, but it works.

[Allons-y!]

When my boyfriend and I first showered together, he actually got a washrag and stuff. It was awkward; I was thinking "Uh-oh, am I supposed to do him next?" But it was nice; it's definitely a fun, sexy way to get clean. It's also really, really hard to get dressed after It's definitely a new experience. It's really easy to get in the mood of, though, so honestly, don't worry about it. No reason why you can't wash up and kiss as well! (Although...not at the same time. Soap in mouth=not sexy.)

On a side note, haha...the first time my BF and I showered together, his parents were away for the weekend and he kept going "Was that the garage door?" Thank goodness they didn't get home early...needless to say, it would not have looked good had we walked out of the bathroom both with wet hair.

[Algernon]

It's really not that different. It's very nice and relaxing for both of you.

[Daydreamer]

This is something my boyfriend and I love to do. When we do it how I like to get clean too What usually happens is he washes my body and I do my hair and we share the shower head. I don't wash him but that might be a preference. We get out and dry off and just cuddle. It's very sweet and comfortable. I think that if you just relax everything will work out fine. Best of luck

[Yen]

Yeah, it's just something to do together. Can be fun and it doesn't necessarily have to lead to much. I see it as more of a way to share something that's usually very personal . Brings some closeness to a relationship .

[LittleMiss]

I found that it's really nice to do after sex. You're all hot and sweaty and it's a nice way to relax and be close.

[Jaguar]

You usally wash each other all over with soap and take turns rinsing off. Showering together is one of those things you can do to get to know each other's bodies and get more comfortable with each other since you touch each other all over, even those sensitive spots. It doesn't have to lead to sex, and it's one of those things you can do before you decide you're ready to actually have sex. The more stuff like this you do, and stuff like hand jobs/fingering, the more relaxed and certain you are when the time comes.

[Nicolette]

think of it as a naked rainfall, get close to eachother, kiss eachother and enjoy. It can feel awkard at first but there's nothing like being close to someone you love in a nice hot steamy shower relaxing and soaping eachother off.

[in/flux]

My boyfriend and I have recently started to shower together on occasion, we especially like to do it in the dark (more exciting and no flabby bits being exposed!), I find it very romantic and quite a turn-on.

It's really up to you guys what you feel like doing in there. With us, we find it nice just to run our hands over each other's bodies and lather each other up with shower gel. Then you can step it up to fingering, oral sex, and so on, if you feel comfortable with that. If not, just simply being so close to each other is a nice experience in itself, and very relaxing. Think of it just as an opportunity to explore each others bodies and to be close to one another; it doesn't necessarily have to lead to sex.

[LucyLouWho]

My husband and I shower together all the time. We usually wash each other and maybe hug/cuddle to keep whoever isn't under the water warm. lol

We don't usually (but maybe we do once in awhile) make something sexual out of it. We usually get in to actually get clean. If we wanna have sex, we do that in the bed whenever we get out. lol

[Gaia]

My partner and I shower together, and I swear we're quicker together than separately
You can make it sexual, or sensual, its your choice. I'm a fan of having the room full of candles, and no lights on with some incense. It makes it super relaxing. Just enjoy yourself [:

[icedoverfire]

Aye - It depends on what you're looking for. You can either get a little action on or take it slow.
I'm partial to the take it slow bit... I like the closeness.

[RockrGrrl]

My boyfriend and I usually use showering together as more of foreplay. It's a way of making the "uhh... lets clean up first" fun and not akward. It can be very romantic, and we've had some of our best times in the shower.

Start by washing him, or visa versa. It doesn't even have to be sexual, just like a nice massage. Oh and don't stay in too long, pruniness can be uncomfortable.

It's also VERY helpful if you have a seat in your shower. For obvious reasons. Bigger showers are better. Ummmm. And good lighting always helps.
:] Have fun!