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When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 04:17 AM
Hello everyone
I really don't care what advice I get Male or Female, but I think a women would be able to answer the question better.
This is probably a small problem compared to most peoples, but basically cause I'm attracted to my gf my penis of course gets harder you know, but the thing about it is we always hug before we go to bed and it seems to me it's awkward for her to have my penis up against her when she's hugging me, I mean it's just before she would get to my leg if she be completely against me she hits my penis through my pants or shorts and cause it's hard it doesn't just well get out of the way. It's not like it's sticking out it's off to the side, but still. I just wish that I could feel her against me without thinking I'm creeping her out with my penis or something.

Well do you girls find this to be a problem like does it make you uncomfortable or just sort of feels uncomfortable?
Or do you really not care?

I might just be over reacting. Idk
But I usually sort of hold back a little on my hugging for that reason so that she isn't planted against me and my penis and at this point it would be awkward to talk about I would think.
If I need to clarify more I can try to be more descriptive

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 06:54 AM
Honestly, I'd think that most girls would be quite happy with the thought that they can turn their boyfriend on like that. I know most guys would definitely consider the opposite a good thing. Honestly, don't sweat it, even if she notices she'll probably just shrug it off, and that's if she doesn't actually like it; which she probably does.

All in all, the moral is: don't hold back when you hug your girlfriend. Life's too short for nonsense like that.

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 08:04 AM
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Honestly, I'd think that most girls would be quite happy with the thought that they can turn their boyfriend on like that. I know most guys would definitely consider the opposite a good thing. Honestly, don't sweat it, even if she notices she'll probably just shrug it off, and that's if she doesn't actually like it; which she probably does.

All in all, the moral is: don't hold back when you hug your girlfriend. Life's too short for nonsense like that.
Yup I'm sure she doesn't mind at all and is flattered more than anything!
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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 11:02 AM
Thanks for the advice guys I really appreciate it^_^
I guess it's just I'm used to thinking things like that are bad rather than good, and sort of well unless you love each ther sex is a little evil or something idk how to describe. It's also my first gf.

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 11:41 AM
yeah, it's actually quite flattering (:

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 01:15 PM
Great, well then I won't worry about it ^_^

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 03:49 PM
I agree it is flattering.
and I know I personally get quite turned on when I can feel my boyfriends hard on.
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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 04:08 PM
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I agree it is flattering.
and I know I personally get quite turned on when I can feel my boyfriends hard on.
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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 06:05 PM
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I agree it is flattering.
and I know I personally get quite turned on when I can feel my boyfriends hard on.
... likewise also.

Unless she actually says "I don't like it" then don't worry. She's still going to bed with you so I'm sure it's fine

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 07:40 PM
I concur with the above... I love it when I can feel my boyfriend. It always makes me smile I am sure she doesn't mind at all, probably likes it

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 07:56 PM
I agree with most everyone who replied. It's actually pretty sexy.
I'm sure your girl likes it. It shows her how much you care about her.
Don't worry about it at all!

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 08:48 PM
Haha great ^_^

Thanks everyone body lol
Jeez haha
I'm blushing a little haha

Oh we don't sleep in the same bed Bryden haha sorry if that was a misconception, haven't gotten that far lol. Not really planning on that anytime soon.

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 10:02 PM
i honestly love when i can feel a guys hard on when he hugs me it turns me on alot dnt worry about it dude oki

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 9th 2009, 10:08 PM
I like it. :-) It reminds me that he wants me and all that jazz.

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 10th 2009, 01:17 AM
I'm not a girl but I can say i'm in the exact shoes you are, I dated a girl for a week and everything was great, but each time we hugged or kissed I was definitely very very very..."excited" I don't like it because I feel like they'll think i'm some kind of perv or whatever, but I just wanted to tell you that you're not alone :P
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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 10th 2009, 04:01 AM
The consensus seems to be pretty one-sided here =P I don't mind it (unless I'm already annoyed with him for something else, but that's totally different, because then I'm just looking for excuses to be pissy ) at all. It's nice to be reminded that your boyfriend is attracted to you.


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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 10th 2009, 04:58 PM
Honestly, I love feeling that my boyfriend/lover/date/whatever has a hard on when im hugging him or something small like that. It makes me feel really good about myself.

I don't see it as a problem, you could always ask her. Communication is key
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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 10th 2009, 05:12 PM
I love it.
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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 10th 2009, 05:31 PM
Let me tell you.. i love it when i hug my boyfriend and i can feel it.. i always say to him "i feel like theres something between us" because he's taller than me so it hits my stomache.

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 10th 2009, 05:59 PM
I find it hot, I love it =)



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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 10th 2009, 07:32 PM
If you're not sure about it, make sure to talk to her about it! Let her know you're worried about it, and I'm sure she'll assure you she doesn't mind.


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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 10th 2009, 08:18 PM
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I agree it is flattering.
and I know I personally get quite turned on when I can feel my boyfriends hard on.
I agree when a huys hugs me and i feel him turned on it makes me happy that i can do that to him
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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 11th 2009, 01:10 AM
Frankly haha
I'm not worried about it now because of everyone's responses and we've made out a few times since I posted this.
Though I might ask her anyway

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Re: When we hug and I feel my penis is in the way - October 14th 2009, 12:37 AM
I love it when I can feel my boyfriend, as well. =)

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