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Question How do you feel when giving oral - June 6th 2024, 09:06 PM

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]I'm curious how others feel when sucking on it. Like does it feel strange in your mouth. Like it feels odd against my cheeks and along my lips.

Mentally I feel weird too. Like I feel belittled. I not sure if thats the right word. I feel natural doing it but also feel as if I'm lowering myself to something beneath him. Does this make any sense.

I feel my mind is over thinking. I wonder how I look doing it. I trying to not hurt him. I trying to brace myself for when he comes.

Is this how I'm supposed to feel and think?[/size][/color][/font]
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Re: How do you feel when giving oral - June 7th 2024, 12:52 AM

I’ve had friends who have said the sensation of a penis can feel a little weird.
But they’ve also said giving oral can feel empowering. Instead of feeling belittled you can think of it like you have the power to make someone feel good, and that’s a great thing.


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Re: How do you feel when giving oral - June 7th 2024, 05:13 AM

Hi, thank you for reaching out! Engaging in oral sex can be a different experience for everyone! If you're feeling belittled, uncomfortable, or are questioning how you're doing it then I suggest engaging in constructive conversation with your partner. Also, ask yourself why you feel this way! Is there something from your past experience that leads to the voice in your head? Has your partner spoken of previous sexual experiences and you're comparing yourself to them? These are some of the things you should be considering before engaging in oral sex the next time.

Wishing you the best of luck!
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