i just wanna do it

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""][FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]i want to have sex so so bad and idk what to do. i masturbate every night and love it but i want the human component the interaction and don’t know what i should do about it. i feel like i’m old enough and ready to do it but don’t like know how to ask a girl[/size][/color][/font][/size][/color][/font]

[Astro04]

Well, unless you want just carnal love, you should search a girl to get a relationship.

Well, you certainly can't go up to a girl and say "hey, let's have sex!"

It takes time to form a bond with someone. Don't get into a relationship just for the purpose of having sex. Also, if you do get into a relationship, it's important to communicate with the girl. Know what the boundaries are and find your safe words. If the girl is apprehensive about getting intimate, then back off. Otherwise, go ahead!

Of course, you both should be within the same age range or, if you're over 18, both should be over the age of consent.

Most importantly, be safe!

[roshnikhanna]

Just go and ask directly and explain your situation.

Originally Posted by roshnikhanna

Just go and ask directly and explain your situation.

Not unless he wants a slap across the face or a knee in the crotch.

Seriously, don't go up to a girl and say "hey, I'm horny and I really wanna have sex" because that's just not cool.

As I've previously said, it takes time to form a bond with someone, both emotionally and physically. Go out to social function, meet new people and become friends, and who knows whether or not you'll become connected to someone in a way where both of you will want to take that next step.

But never, ever, ever go up to a girl and say "hey, I'm horny and I want sex!" because you'll either get a hand across your face or a knee to your crotch.

Be sensible and respect when a woman says "no, I'm not interested" because it means she's not interested. Move on and befriend someone else. Oh, and both of you should be within the same age range or above the legal age of consent.

[Nickfury23]

Thank you, it is very useful.