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How to ask best friend if they want to masturbate together? -
October 18th 2021, 10:44 PM
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Me (Call me Scott for the sake of anonymity): Male, straight, 15
My friend (Call him James for the sake of anonymity): Male, straight, 15
We're both nearly 16
Hi everyone
So over the past month, my best friend and I have spoken to each other about girls, masturbation, etc. Some other friends have also been involved, but not as much.
It is currently at the point where we know what stuff we each like, how many times a day, etc, and we're both really open about it all. Recently, I have been wanting to masturbate with him (Or just in the same room). I have done research, and according to most of the internet, it is a very common feeling to have to a close friend.
I go for sleepovers at his house occasionally (not since we've been open about everything though), and again, I have read online that this is the best situation to ask him (+ I would rather ask him like that). His parents are fine with masturbation etc, they are somewhat nudis as well. I have also seen him watch p*rn before (by accident), and he knows this and doesn't mind.
How can I ask him if he wants to masturbate together/in the same room? I am really nervous haha
Any help would be so incredibly appreciated!
Anonymous
Re: How to ask best friend if they want to masturbate together? -
October 19th 2021, 05:53 AM
Something similar happened to me. The best thing is to ask for it directly. Talk with him first about the idea. I think he can't say no.
Except for me. I did