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Unregistered November 3rd 2020 12:13 PM

can’t stop feeling turned on
 
I am a 15 year old girl and the past few days I can’t stop feeling turned on and its really starting to bother me because I want it to go away but it just won’t. I thought maybe if I masturbated it would go away but now I feel super guilty and scared because I didn’t want to do it. This is causing me so much stress and anxiety I can’t focus on anything else.

Allyson Wood November 5th 2020 09:26 AM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Don't feel guilty about it. It is completely normal and extremely common. People of all ages masturbate and it's often the first sexual experience they have.

Mallika November 6th 2020 02:25 PM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Hi there,

First of all, don't be too hard on yourself. I've been exactly where you are now, and I know how stressful it can get. But, as I've had to learn the hard way, beating yourself over feeling a certain way is only going to do more harm for you than good.

Don't forcibly try to stop yourself from engaging in such activity, that's not going to work. Over time, these urges will stabilise. Remember, you can't ignore the effect of hormones at your age - that's probably the reason you're feeling "turned on". It's beyond your conscious control if it's your hormones' work, isn't it?

At your age, it's natural to want to explore your sexuality. It's something we all go through, trust me. You'll realise that the more you stress over this, the more difficult it will be to overcome this. Don't feel too bad about the feelings you're experiencing. If anything, having a more accepting frame of mind and being mindful that we do get these urges from time to time will naturally take care of the frequency and depth of such thoughts.

Take care!! :hug:

Oneirophobia November 8th 2020 12:59 AM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Hey lovely,
Honestly, this is a normal teen thing to go through, no need to be scared, or guilty about it.
It's one of our natural bodys natures and not something we can always just make go away.
What you did was what most would do. Dont be ashamed of yourself.

jeff1 November 9th 2020 10:11 AM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
hey there! i am the same way it is so hard to stop that. we can talk about this together, if you PM me.

Allyson Wood November 16th 2020 05:18 AM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Don't get stressed about it, It is just the natural nature of a woman's body.

DeletedAccount53 December 4th 2020 03:18 AM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Nothing wrong with masturbation, but at 15 the chances your hormones are raging is a big poss. By 16, 17 or so, one's hormones settle down a bit, but hormones pretty much rage when people are younger.


Enjoy without guilt. :)

cindy is here October 15th 2021 12:30 PM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
I keep getting the same feelings too. At first I thought I was crazy or something was wrong. Then there was a class at school and I figured it out better.

Astro04 October 15th 2021 01:29 PM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Honestly I think is something you like a lot, I think this isn't a crime!. It's not something easy, you should follow it deeper and win your state of tension once for all. You have nothing to fear.

cindy is here October 18th 2021 07:37 PM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
I think like everybody is saying it is like normal to get feelings.

Astro04 October 18th 2021 08:15 PM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
See? :) it's a normal thing

cindy is here October 21st 2021 03:07 AM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Does anybody come on here anymore ?

Astro04 October 21st 2021 05:50 AM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Here on the forum? Well, guess reaches the answer here! Anyway can always PM me if need more help, after registration, of course.

Rivière October 22nd 2021 12:08 AM

Re: can’t stop feeling turned on
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by cindy is here (Post 1372423)
Does anybody come on here anymore ?

Don't worry! The site is still active.

It's likely that there are less replies due to the age of the thread as it's almost a year old. If you're interested and want quicker responses, feel free to create an entirely new thread so your question can receive a proper answer rather than getting lost in someone else's thread. :)


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