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Guy Insecure abut his size... -
March 18th 2020, 11:21 PM
Hey! Me and my girlfriend recently came to the conclusion that we both wanted to lose our virginity. But as I’m asian I have been worrying alot about my personal size. I therfor measured my own size and I am not quite sure how to feel about it. It came out as 6.3 inches long (16cm) and 4.8 inches in circumference (12cm). I am not familiar with what’s average for my age (14/15), and I don’t wanna go around asking. So I am therefore making this post, and asking for help. Is 6.3 x 4.8 inches (16cm x 12cm) a good size, or do I have the right to be worried? I have very low self-esteem so hard from my perspective to know! (to take note off is that Asians commonly have smaller, and that’s one of the reasons I worry. Since I am half asian and half swedish).
Last edited by KianZW; March 19th 2020 at 12:16 AM.
Re: Guy Insecure abut his size... -
March 19th 2020, 12:23 AM
Hey man,
You're perfectly normal, maybe a little above average for your age. Really, don't worry about it. It's no big deal unless you're extremely different from the average, and even then you can work around it.
Re: Guy Insecure abut his size... -
April 29th 2020, 05:32 AM
Hi there!
Every body is different just like the sizes of a males penis. I can understand how insecure it can make you feel, but females feel the same way in regards to their breast size. Please know that every penis will always be different sizes and that's nothing to be ashamed of!
Hey! Me and my girlfriend recently came to the conclusion that we both wanted to lose our virginity. But as I’m asian I have been worrying alot about my personal size. I therfor measured my own size and I am not quite sure how to feel about it. It came out as 6.3 inches long (16cm) and 4.8 inches in circumference (12cm). I am not familiar with what’s average for my age (14/15), and I don’t wanna go around asking. So I am therefore making this post, and asking for help. Is 6.3 x 4.8 inches (16cm x 12cm) a good size, or do I have the right to be worried? I have very low self-esteem so hard from my perspective to know! (to take note off is that Asians commonly have smaller, and that’s one of the reasons I worry. Since I am half asian and half swedish).
you're almost the exact same size my current bf is! he's great and even though he's smaller than my first bf i enjoy sex with him much more! you shouldn't focus on ur size i think i think you should focus on what you and your partner want to do.[/size][/color][/font][/size][/color][/font]