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Erection - help needed -
September 21st 2014, 12:53 PM
hello guys , im almost 18 years old but i have problem that i get boner fast .specially my problem is in changing rooms or some places like that where people can watch me i get it and i feel its awkward .but my masturbating is fine and my sperm comes out normally and didnt annoy me before when i had sex . so its just the boner .
Re: Erection - help needed -
September 21st 2014, 04:15 PM
Soo..your problem is that you get erections in changing rooms?
Don't worry, this a fairly normal thing to happen, even though the setting isn't sexualised, he's still gonna pop up and say hi when people start getting naked. Don't worry about it.
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Re: Erection - help needed -
September 22nd 2014, 03:39 PM
Well, I guess that happens to every one of us ^^ we just know how to hide it better.
when you see signs that it might rise again, just sneak in the toilet quick with a towel in front of your thing and rub one out. then youre good
Re: Erection - help needed -
September 22nd 2014, 09:12 PM
It's pretty normal - hormones are still flying all over the place, even if it's not to the same extent as when you were younger, so occasionally they'll spring a nasty surprise like that. It's nothing to worry about, and it will settle down in time. Until then, the best thing to do is be aware of it and have a few fallback plans to cover for it if it happens at a particularly unwelcome time. If it helps, it does at least show you've got a good blood supply down there so take that as a positive if nothing else.
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Re: Erection - help needed -
September 24th 2014, 11:56 PM
Whenever you can, wear jeans or other clothing that can hide boners better, and just masturbate as you normally have. You also may want to come up with visual cues that can disgust you and help the boner go away when in public (think "grandma in the shower" or something ) There's nothing wrong with you. In your teenage years, frequent boners are common. But sometimes, the situations can be awkward, so just try your best to hide them if possible. And if not...it happens to everybody.