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Private places for teens to have sex? -
April 12th 2014, 08:49 AM
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. We want to have sex. Basically what are some good places to have sex without being worried of being caught. Neither of us can drive and have little money. I have a pretty protective mother, so it can't be a place that is too obvious like a park near his house. Are there any other suggestions?
Re: Private places for teens to have sex? -
April 12th 2014, 11:11 AM
Do you have any sympathetic friends with free houses?? If you don't have a car or a lot of money it can limit you a bit - I assume you're too young or can't afford a hotel room.
Is this your first time you're talking about?? If so it might be worth saving up and waiting until it's in a place where you can completely relax and aren't worried about being walked in on. Even if it takes a while to find a perfect place, it might be worth it.
Just remember that it can be illegal to have sex in a public place, so please be careful about where you do choose. And I don't know how old you are but obviously it mightn't be a great idea if either of you are young enough to get in trouble with the law. And I presume you're smart enough to have planned your protection.
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Re: Private places for teens to have sex? -
April 12th 2014, 07:40 PM
I don't think there are many places you can go to just have sex, apart from hotels and places like that all of which cost money and can draw attention to you. Or, if you have any good friends who will let you stay at theirs, but I would find that weird.
I think it would be better for both of you if you have sex in one of your own houses. It's a completely natural thing and as long as you're both legal there shouldn't be anything wrong with it. I understand that you have a protective mother but I'm sure she'd rather you have sex at home where you're safe than on a park bench or something. Don't forget that having sex in a public place is illegal. I'm sure that's a worse thing to do for your protective mother than having sex at home.
Perhaps you could just wait until either of your parents aren't home and just have sex in one of your houses. It's the nicest of all the options and the easiest, really.