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Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 10th 2012, 02:30 AM
Okay, so my boyfriend just fingered me, I walked home and my undies are drenched in blood...I don't know why this is happening I had my period a week and a half ago so that cannot be it, and I've had sex a lot so I'm pretty positive my cherry is popped, I just do not know what is wrong...it's sort of weird...! && just yeah...what could this possibly be?
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Re: Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 10th 2012, 02:34 AM
It's possible that his fingernails were too long & might have scratched you or cut you on accident. Give it plenty of time to heal & try to clean down there as much as possible. If it doesn't stop bleeding or seems to get worse, see your doctor.
For future reference, make sure he has short nails & washes his hands beforehand. If there's ever any pain or blood, then that's a sign to stop.
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Re: Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 10th 2012, 03:51 AM
I agree with Barbara, it was probably his fingernails being too long. Just give yourself time to heal and don't do anything vaganal for a little while.
Make sure next time he wants to finger you that he clips his nails down to an appropriate length.
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Re: Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 14th 2012, 12:23 PM
His fingernail could have cut you, or your hymen (which is not completely over your vaginal canal, even before being a virgin, as some like to believe) could have been stretched a little larger than it's used to and torn a bit, causing some blood. I would recommend telling him to go slower, cut his nails, and if there's any pain tell him to stop. Also, any kind of play in the vagina could always use come lubricant.
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Re: Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 14th 2012, 12:55 PM
Like the others have said, it could be a cut or scratch from his fingernails. But even though you've been having sex, it is still possible that your hymen was still intact all that time. That's something only you can know, of course, but sometimes a hymen simply stretches during sex or fingering, and takes longer than you might expect to properly tear. You might want to go and see a gynocologist as they will be able to tell you if it's broken and identify why you're bleeding all of a sudden.
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Re: Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 14th 2012, 01:11 PM
As others have said, it could be a cut caused when he was fingering you, I'd give it time to heal and avoid doing anything that involves yourself/him being inside you for a week or two so it can get better. If it doesn't stop, I'd consider visiting the doctors just to be on the safe side.
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Re: Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 14th 2012, 05:53 PM
I agree with the other posters; If his nails are too long/slightly sharp, they may of caused a cut. If the bleeding doesn't stop before too long or gets worse or abnormal I'd see a doctor.
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Re: Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 14th 2012, 06:42 PM
To add, not only should you make sure his fingernails are short, but that his hands are clean! You should also make sure you are relaxed and comfortable with everything and use lubrication is necessary. Take care
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Re: Bleeding after Being fingered -
May 14th 2012, 10:27 PM
This isn't abnormal. Often it's caused by roughness and fingernails that are too long. Try having him cut his nails (and make sure they aren't sharp on the edges). If that doesn't work, try not having him go as rough.
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