Too lonely!

[monstermanx]

Yo,

Well I don't know if this is in the right place but lately I've been finding myself lonely. Like, I never get out to hang out, I only have like one friend I can count that doesn't say shit behind my back or try and beat me up.

I got like no one to talk too, no girls, no nothing. It's depressing.

[ChloeBean]

I know how you feel. I've never had a real boyfriend before. It's ok..well it's not ok but you know what I mean. That special someone will come soon.

[Katieeee]

Hey :]
That's a rather tough situation to be in, and believe it or not, most everyone faces it at some point in their lives. It's happened to me before too. I've found that the best thing to do in these situations is to reach out. Be optimistic and draw people to you. Do you sit by anyone that seems nice in any of your classes? Perhaps you can get to know them. And as for getting a girlfriend or anything like that, that will come with getting to know more people. Any cute girls at school? Go up and talk to them. Don't be afraid. At least you can say you put yourself out there.

[Gaia]

I'm really sorry you're feeling like this Brendan, perhaps try putting yourself out in social situations more?
As you're not asking advice though, I'm going to move this to Why me?
If anyone disagrees, feel free to move it back.
Lou.

[i_am_me_again]

Heya

I know what its like, I have no friends or anyone to hang with. Use your one friend who you trust to introduce you to more people, & as for girls, it will happen when you least expect it.


Jamie
xx

[Hollifire]

The best thing for you is to get out there. When I changed my lifestyle, I lost a lot of friends but even just having one friend is better than nothing. Things will perk up for you when you least expect it. And about the girl thing, that special someone will come into your life sooner than you think. *hugs* :]

[monstermanx]

Yeah, it really sucks. Put me back into a depression, to be honest.

Well I go to school with 12 kids, none of them are nice and none of them would be someone to hang out with. Unless I suddenly took an interest into drugs, drinking, fighting and getting arrested- Which I don't and won't. Plus, I can't sacrifice my training by getting in trouble for coming home drunk. I come home in any un-proper state, do anything wrong, my supplements are cut-off and training becomes worthless.

I do put myself out there but I don't take it too kindly when I find someone is talking stuff behind my back, or talking stuff in-front of me. People find me too confrontational, and when I don't confront it doesn't stop. That isn't why I'm in this situation, at my old school I got picked on so I picked back I had no one or nothing to loose and at this school theres two girls, ones a lesbian (No disrespect but she isnt into guys) and the other one is basically a town bicycle, not too mention taken.

***MODS I WOULD LIKE THIS IN EITHER DEPRESSION OR RELaTIONSHIPS, I AM ASKING FOR ADVICE THE iPOD TOUH CUT THE MSG OFF***

** THANKS EVERYONE !! **

And with that said, I lost that one friend. She felt she was doing harm to me by her suicidal and depression thoughts, therefor she locked me out, won't text/call back, she blocked me on IM and FB.

Gah, I don't know what to do.

[newbie552]

ouch you have a bad scenario there. maybe try to talk to that friend face to face. does where you live have any place like a club or something that involves things your interested in?

[monstermanx]

Not really. And she lives 3 Hours away, so it's really hard now.

[four_foot_11]

I'll be your friend, and yours too Jamie!

[monstermanx]

Yay ! Thanks .