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Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 21st 2009, 08:45 PM

http://news.aol.com/article/woman-ma...3-times/352047

I can't even imagine being married that many times!


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 21st 2009, 09:06 PM

Oh wow. I would never want to be married that many times. When I get married.. it will be once and only once; I hope anyway.


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 21st 2009, 09:08 PM

Ker-ching!

methinks she's in it for the $$$
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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 21st 2009, 10:01 PM

Yikes. I mean, some of the reasons she gave are understandable (gay, abusive etc) but I'm curious about all the other ones... She admitted her last one was for publicity. I really dislike when people don't take marriage seriously.


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 21st 2009, 10:18 PM

thats seriously wrong..im sorry my moms been married four and i hate it..if she had a nykids i feel bad for them...23 is pupostourus
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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 21st 2009, 11:23 PM

Wow...that's an awful lot of wedding dresses.
I can't imagine doing that, I only want to walk up the ailse once!




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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 05:43 AM

All I can think to do is laugh. Clearly the relationships weren't all that important to her, which means the marriages shouldn't be seen as significant.



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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 06:23 AM

Wow. The scary thing is she lives in the same state I'm in I wonder if I've passed any of her ex husbands on the streets. But 23 husbands? It's kind of scary, and kind of pathetic. Is she doing something wrong?


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 09:05 AM

oh dear. married 23 times.





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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 11:43 AM

Just curious -- why on earth would you want to marry someone who is notorious for failed marriages...?

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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 12:06 PM

She can never fill a void.
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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 04:32 PM

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Maybe her next partner would have been married a lot too. Then they really would have something to discuss--all of their past partners.


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 04:34 PM

I'm kind of wondering what all her husbands thought.

"So, have you been married before?" "Yeah, 20 times."

It just sounds so ridiculous.
Maybe she'll eventually figure out that getting married doesn't fix everything..
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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 04:42 PM

To be honest, I can understand why she would be so lonely. Having that many marriages and still not feeling as if you've found what you're looking for must be horrible!....and costly!!

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Gosh, can you imagine how long a date with her would be if she was going to talk about each marriage!
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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 05:20 PM

That's awful.
She's lonely because clearly she's not taking marriage seriously.


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 05:32 PM

You know you can be in a long term relationship for years and not get married. Maybe she should get into one of those, so the stigma of "marriage" isn't there and breaking up is easier.


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 09:40 PM

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You know you can be in a long term relationship for years and not get married. Maybe she should get into one of those, so the stigma of "marriage" isn't there and breaking up is easier.
Like Hugh Hefner, he has 3 girlfriends right now I believe, specifically because he can't marry all of them, you know since polygamy is illegal in North America, not sure about Mexico though.

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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 09:41 PM

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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 22nd 2009, 09:44 PM

Somehow talking about ex bf's or gf's is the worst thing to talk about in Relationships.


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 23rd 2009, 12:47 AM

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"So, have you been married before?" "Yeah, 20 times."

LOL, yeah seeing their reactions would've been priceless. For some reason, this reminds me of a Mastercard commercial:
First wedding... $4000
Second wedding... $2000
23rd wedding... Priceless
Some things money cant buy, for everything else in life... don't marry a person whose been married 23 times.
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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 23rd 2009, 12:49 AM

Am I seriously the only one who thinks she's in it for the money...
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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 23rd 2009, 01:01 AM

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Ker-ching!

methinks she's in it for the $$$
By trying to set the world record or something?


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 23rd 2009, 01:05 AM

You'd think that after at least six or seven that the guys after that would've figured that it's best not to marry her.


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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 23rd 2009, 01:17 AM

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Am I seriously the only one who thinks she's in it for the money...
No, I'm also with you on it.
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Re: Woman Married 23(!) Times, Still Lonely - February 23rd 2009, 04:02 AM

*speechless* W-wow? That's pretty... impressive O_O Marriage looks difficult as it is... but going through it 23 times?! I probably would have been reluctant to try a second time... let alone a 24th time!

I can see why she'd be lonely though.... after being married 23 times you would probably be somewhat used to having some kind of husband around.

Good luck to her. 24th time is the charm?



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