I feel lonely now..

[Lil]

Whats the right phrase im looking for..maybe happiness is bliss? well idk id never been in a relationship before til bout 7 months ago and i assure i was just fine and happy never felt like i needed anyone and never was interested.then he came a long and i was just in heaven really.oor relationship was perfect never fought or had an argument.well he broke up with me i think its been nearly a month for a reason i still dont know :/ and honestly i miss him.a lot.i feel lonely now i use to talk to him 24/7 and now nothing.While im not one to let this take over my life i just feel like a part of me is missing.Im 16 so i cant say for certain it was love but it felt like it i know it wasnt lust.Its not just that i feel like i lost a boyfriend but my bestfriend as well,cause we were friends months before we were together,if anything i just want my friend back.i know im being whiny but i cant make this lonliness feeling go away

[HereToHelpYou]

Have you told him that? Talk to him. Tell him what you just said to us, that you miss him as a friend in general and are hoping you could have that friendship again. Assure him that you arent going to try to get back together with him, but want to just hang out, as friends because you miss that.

[Lil]

Originally Posted by HereToHelpYou

Have you told him that? Talk to him. Tell him what you just said to us, that you miss him as a friend in general and are hoping you could have that friendship again. Assure him that you arent going to try to get back together with him, but want to just hang out, as friends because you miss that.

thanks i did tell him that and he was like yeah we can be friends but he doesnt really talk to me much at all :/

[xxpaigiexx]

Hey,

It is okay to miss an ex and it is okay to get over things in your own time, especially seeing as he was your first boyfriend. I think first boyfriends are sometimes the most difficult to get over. Especially seeing as the two of you were together for 7 months, that's a big deal at 16.
It's okay to want to be friends with him but right now I still think you're hurting too much to be able to be good friends with him again. In time it will get easier it's just getting over that initial akwardness.
It will start off difficult going back to being friends but once you're both over the break up it will be easier.
Sometimes people say we're be friends and it never happens the way you planned it because usually feelings still get in the way of you being just friends and one person can sometimes have feelings for the other.
I would suggest speaking to him and finding out why he broke up with you exactly, that can help you to piece things together sometimes and makes things easier to get over, it will be gradual but you'll get there.
PM me anytime
Paige x