Boyfriend kissing someone else have to stay with him bc of religion

[andrealp]

I have been with this guy for a year then I found out that he was still In contact with his ex by only that I broke up with him then he came we talked and we decided to get back on the process of that I asked and he said he kissed her and I got really angry on my religion the person you did it with is the one you have to Marry and be with for the rest of your life :/ but I'm hurt emotionally and physically that I have to be with someone who kissed someone else when they were with me I really don't know what to do :/

[JoBlue]

Look hun, no one deserves to be treated like that.

Im my eyes you have three options stay with him and see if he does anything like that again then leave him. Stay with him and be worried that he may do it again or much more. Leave him and start fresh.

You made a "Did it" with him as you put it, because you loved him. YOU did nothing wrong so I'm sure your religion can fro give you for being with someone you truly cared about but hurt you....

[Koharuchan]

On your profile, it says you're a Christian. Christianity doesn't say that the person you "do it" with is the one you have to stay with for the rest of your life. The bible says that you should become intimate with your partner only after marriage, not that if you become intimate beforehand you have to marry that person.

Religion aside, you shouldn't be with a guy who's going to go behind your back; trust me, you're better off without him, and god will understand.