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Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
August 9th 2019, 05:43 AM
It's so hard to say this, but I think we can't be together. Or rather... we shouldn't. We both have problems and would put the burden on the other one, wouldn't we? It's just too hard to carry. We would destroy each other. It doesn't make sense. Or maybe I'm talking like a 40-year-old while I should get the most out of my youth and give it a go. I don't know anymore... but still, my guts tell me our relationship would be destructive.
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August 11th 2019, 04:12 AM
I hate how you make fun of me for being afraid of things I know won’t hurt me. It still is a fear. Even though it was outside and on my screen it still scared the shit out of me, and that’s why I needed you to scare it off. I do not appreciate you making fun of me for it.
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
August 19th 2019, 05:36 AM
Why can't you say how you really feel? What are you going to regret if you just spoke up?
“The main thing is realizing that even if you feel terrible for a while, that’s not how you’re going to feel the whole time. . . . Things change if you just keep moving.” - Gary Vaynerchuk
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August 21st 2019, 04:41 PM
I'm sorry you are going through this and getting bullied. I'll try and be there for you but I'm finding it really triggering and I don't want to let you know that I feel this way and why I do. It's horrible that you are going through this and I worry that we all will too throughout our lives.
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August 27th 2019, 06:03 AM
Maybe it wasn't your job to encourage me, but that sure as hell didn't make it your job to abuse me, permanently break me, or leave me with what I suspected may have been PTSD. You of all people knew better, and exactly how not to do that. You alone are responsible for the final soul shattering damage. I will never be the same because of everything you will never admit.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
August 29th 2019, 12:32 AM
That's a new rule as of when, my day off?! And it's not like I'm the only one guilty of it. You claim you don't have time to do your job, but you have plenty of time to bitch at me over the stupid shit, which I swear you just come up with to piss me off, and every time I see you, you're doing literally NOTHING. I really wish he would catch on and deal with you.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Last edited by Kate*; August 29th 2019 at 06:31 AM.
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
September 1st 2019, 02:27 AM
I didn't start anything, I stopped accepting you treating like a 5 year old. It is not my fault that you're behind because you only do your job when you overlap with the GM. It's not my fault that you're making obvious mistakes, it's not my fault you're pregnant. And it's not my fault you're under stress. I offered to help, did what you said and you stopped me because I wasn't working fast enough. I don't have to like you, but since I work my ass off regardless of who is watching and can keep my mouth shut when I want to tell you to fuck off, you won't be getting rid of me any time soon.
I'm not saying I want the job, but at least if I had it, shit would get done.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
September 2nd 2019, 01:42 PM
I hope my not sleeping last night doesn't make me unwell again. I really want to see you on Wednesday. Even if I am manic. I want to have tea with you and also, it might be weird, but I want to cuddle you. Just holding someone who isn't my ex would be nice. Holding you, specifically, would be even nicer. Platonically of course. I'm hoping, at the very least, I can get a hug from you on Wednesday.
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September 16th 2019, 04:17 PM
Yesterday marked three years since we lost you. How has it been so long already? I still think about you almost every day, and nothing feels the same since you went. I miss you so much and would give anything to see you again. It's horrible to think I have a whole life ahead of me that you wont be a part of.
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
September 17th 2019, 09:28 PM
You have to manage your own triggers. If you know it's upsetting to you, take a break, don't just complain about how upsetting the environment is, unless it's obviously something toxic to most people.
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face. -
September 21st 2019, 09:35 PM
Why did you have to go nosing around at those pictures? There's a reason why I didn't go to that graduation meal. I didn't want to risk that he was there. And then seeing your reaction and saying how you 'Forgot -he- was there'...what did you expect? Please stop reminding me about him. I don't want to talk about how stupid of a human being I am. I have to live with the hideous decision I made and it's difficult as it is. I don't need to you remind me about it too.
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September 23rd 2019, 10:53 PM
I don't fucking get it! I'm so confused and hurt and angry. Was that supposed to be another lie or a change in plans? What about last night--what did you mean? Are you using me until you find someone better? Were you before? Because how you treated me has made me question everything, all your motives. I want to be open with you and trust you emotionally again, but I just can't..
"Just open your eyes and see that life is beautiful..." ~Sixx:A.M.
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September 30th 2019, 03:02 AM
And now you know why I never call off, I'm still the only one who actually does my job. She's still acting like it's beneath her. If you have time to fold and sort it all and/or leave me a detailed note about where everything belongs then YOU HAVE TIME TO PUT IT AWAY
Member Since: September 19, 2007
LHO: March 31, 2008- October 13, 2012
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you." Jean Paul Sarte