Say something you wish you could say to their face.

[daisy_jam]

You are the most judgemental person that I've ever had to deal with. I'm so ashamed to call you my father. You cannot say these things to my sister when you haven't been there in her spot. You make me sick

[Calaer]

I just wish you took this as seriously as me. I know you don't really 'care' as much as I do, but would it kill you to pretend considering this is life changing for the both of us?

[CcIrAaRzA33me]

I wish you knew how much I love you.

[Calaer]

I wish that you weren't so rude all the time.

[CcIrAaRzA33me]

You think you're just picking on me, but it's actually really mean. I know you think you're just playing, but it really hurts my feelings.

[Calaer]

I hate how 'two faced' you are! You act like my best friend, and say you'll be there for me no matter what, but then you turn around and try to sleep with my husband?! What is your problem! You're an adult for god's sake!

[CcIrAaRzA33me]

How can you say you love all of me and yet hate when I get upset? You say you hate me like that.

[Kate*]

All I know about "taking responsibility for your own learning" is that you said I didn't do it. I don't know what the hell it meant, but if I was supposed to be teaching myself everything, what was I paying you for?! It felt like I was supposed to teach myself everything and then pay you to tell me I did it all wrong, insult me until I psychologically broke, blame me for the fact that I failed, cover for each other while mistreating me until I was convinced I was going crazy so I would quit to preserve my own sanity and not sue you if you forced me out. I really hope you realize that that makes absolutely NO SENSE and is completely ridiculous.

I can't believe I just did that, but something about it felt right. I'm sick of living with this and I need to spread awareness so people stop blaming me for being bran-damaged.

I'm trying to take you up on your offer of help. Please tell me you at least remember offering it even if you don't want to do it anymore and that you'll be professional enough respond to me either way. Your the one who will look bad if you don't and I won't consider your program anymore.

[Calaer]

I wish you would treat me with more respect. I don't care who you think you are. I deserve to be treated with respect.

[bitesize]

-That 'Ugh' made me feel a bit used. No need to be dickish about it. Come on man.

-To my one-year-ago self.....
You're about to enter one of the craziest, happiest, most intense months of your life. Everything is a little bittersweet and a little perfect. You never expected to come to this country and fall smackbang headoverheels with someone - someone American! - but brace yourself: it's going to be full-on and it's going to be one of the biggest things that's happened to you so far, ever.
In a couple of days, an old acquaintance is going to pass away and it's going to be devastating. But you need to take on the message that he always gave: grab life and squeeze every last drop out of it. Let yourself fall into this whirlwind, even if it means saying goodbye will the hardest goodbye you've ever had to say. Don't think, just do it. Change your flights. (You can fly on your own: you don't now it now but you'll be doing it in November.) Stay with him. September's going to be a rough one because when you get back home, missing him is going to consume your nights and your days and for the first two weeks, all you'll be able to do is walk and walk, and write and write, and drown in your thoughts of him and it'll be pure gold shit.
Don't neglect the girls: they're here too. They're very understanding and they want the best for you. Trust R&H. If they talk it doesn't matter. Just live. <3

[Calaer]

I just want to feel better, and I don't want to have to worry about you breathing down my neck about it.

[misunfortunate.]

Stop belittling and attacking me. I will not be made to feel like a selfish, irresponsible person for putting myself first and taking the steps I need to live the life I deserve. My life isn't easy but I'm doing the best I can, and I don't need people putting me down for that. I need support and understanding, not guilt-tripping and passive-aggressiveness. So just think before you speak, okay?

[Calaer]

I wish you would respect me the way I respect you.

[Kate*]

They completely screwed me and your degree is pretty much worthless, but you offered to help so I'm taking you up on it. I'm going to be professional and respectful and I'm grateful for any 3rd party help I can get, even if it's not objective. However, I will not sit there and pretend everything is okay when it's not so you don't have to feel bad. If I can get it for free/earn a stipend and get some kind of experience it might be worth it.

[Ral.]

If you love me, let me go.

[Calaer]

I wish you were still in our life. You may be an ass, and over controlling, but it would have been great if you had been there for Ava yesterday.

Uh... Please, if you are gonna post pictures of the kiddos in your lives, at least make sure they're wearing pants and a top in the picture! I don't need to see the underwear of a six year old, followed by comments questioning whether or not they're on correctly!

You may personally know some of the people on your FB Friends List, but what about the rest? Use your noggin for fuck's sake! I'm not saying any of them would exploit children, but you can't ever be too safe.

And honestly, I like seeing pictures of kiddos doing dorky things clothed because after two... children need to wear clothes because that's just how it works in society, and they need to learn that! What message are you sending to your grandson?

[Calaer]

I wish you were a nicer person.

[Kate*]

The universe seems to be dishing out serious doses of karma lately, I'm hoping you get yours sooner rather than later. I'm not vindictive and I don't want to hurt you, but I want you held accountable because we all know that, fit for the profession aside, the way you treated me (and others) was completely ridiculous, unprofessional, possibly illegal, and just plain wrong. Just because people don't or won't pursue lawsuits doesn't mean they don't have grounds to.

[Rivière]

I like how you told me I was 'slipping the point' when you were doing the exact same thing by not thinking about the other side of the coin.

[Calaer]

You are not a mother. You don't deserve to have your children.

[Kate*]

I'm taking you up on the help you offered, mostly because you're one of only two people who did and I don't think he's available. For the record, I refuse to guilt trip him for parenting, but I feel like he would've been a lot more help. He knows me A LOT better, I'm more comfortable with him, and I know he would be more objective.
Please let this help be helpful and not just a recruitment opportunity for a worthless alternative to my very good and possible dream turned impossible nightmare.

Sweetie, the Soviet Union fell twenty-four years ago and you are in the United States now. I don't care if not everything is spotless. The door won't get grey and moldy unless it's not maintained for as long as the USSR has been gone.

[LeRiA]

My bff: I know you are lying! Please don't do it anymore! You can't treat me like sh** and expect me to treat you like an angel anymore.
My family: I'm an agender. Would you hate me if I liked girls?
My brother: homophobic b******

[Calaer]

I think you're a horrible person, and I truly want you to know that 'It's nothing personal.'

[LeRiA]

Dear my class,
I love you all individually and you are all unique. No matter how many times you hurt me, no matter how many times you pierce me with your insults, I will always love you. Even though I've said bad things to you, it doesn't mean I hate you. This is our final school year together, after that, it's over, but my love for you all won't disappear. Goodbye, beloved friends.

I hate stupid computer illiterate baby boomers and gen xers!

NO WEBPAGES DO NOT AUTOMATICALLY REFRESH THEREFORE YOU HAVE NO FUCKING WAY OF KNOWING IF YOU GOT KNOCKED OFFLINE!

NO, YOUTUBE KEEPS PLAYING A VIDEO FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE EVEN IF THE WIFI HAS GONE DOWN! THE ONLY WAY YOU WOULD KNOW IF IT DID IS IF YOU HAVE AUTOPLAY ON! A TEN HOUR VIDEO DOES JACK SQUAT SHIT!

I've been having issues with this computer for almost a month now and I just want to cry and stomp my foot and throw a fit like a six year old! THIS IS SO GODDAMN FRUSTRATING!

[Clarent]

We will find you.

[Calaer]

I wish you were all better people. I want you guys to be apart of my life, but I just can't do that when you guys treat me so badly.

[Kate*]

Remember when I told you that if this happened, I'd probably never be okay again and you made me change it to it would suck, but I'd eventually recover? You were wrong. Everyone kept telling me "if that happens we'll discuss what you can do instead." I lost you, he was on sabbatical and now I can't contact him because I don't think he's available or would be willing, and she just tried to help and didn't know what to tell me. That on top of everything else that's worse than I was expecting and I can't take it anymore. I know you told me to take care of myself, but I just don't have it in me or see the point. If I end up going back, I'll go back to you, but right now it doesn't look like that's happening. I give up.

[Calaer]

You're so beautiful. I just wish you could see what I do. You, as a human, in your perfectly imperfect form. What on God's green earth would I do without each and every one of you beautiful people.

[Kintsukuroi.]

To all the people who laughed at my theory: I was right...in a way at least.

[MWF]

Rachel... Please like me? Maybe? Someday? Ah fuck it, your out of my league in all categories.
Talking about the most beautiful girl I've ever met, inside and out, who I'm only able to see a couple days out of the year.

[Kate*]

It's probably going to end that way. It's not your fault or mine, but I just can't do it anymore and I don't see a reason to keep trying if that's all I'm waiting for. I'm not a complete hysterical or desperate mess anymore, I'm just done and accepting my fate. I have to stop desperately wanting both what I can never have and one last meeting with you where you make it okay somehow. The desire for at least my version of that is resurfacing which means more flashbacks and pain from it. I'm done.

[Kate*]

I am not an ego maniac, I'm extremely rare and trying to maintain some level of self-respect and self-worth while the rest of the world tries to destroy me from the inside out.

I'm not resistant to "feedback" and advice. I'm resistant to having my spirit destroyed because you don't know the difference between advice, help, and completely uncalled for criticism of who I am.

[MWF]

Guys down the hall, fuck off. I'm not an alcoholic.

[Kate*]

If I’m proof of anything it’s that anyone can learn the content, but not everyone can do the job; it’s not what you teach, but how you teach it. How your students are taught (and treated) is what your profession becomes. That’s the job you have. Adapted from Girl Meets World, “Girl Meets the New Teacher”

I REALLY hope you didn't think this was going to be all butterflies and rainbows her saying it could be "the best thing that ever happens" to me makes me think she may not be the only one who believes that. It has been a complete NIGHTMARE which doesn't do it justice in the least, but even I don't have the language skills to impart on you the anguish it has really been.

This will likely screw me, but I'm hoping it will work out for me like it has for others. I NEED one thing to go right, just ONE. I kind of hope that I eventually get to tell you what this has really been like, but I'm not expecting to ever get that chance.

[Storyteller.]

I neither asked for your approval nor desired your criticism, and your constant judgement and negativity is so very tiring. I hope somebody calls you on it someday, because it's not my fight anymore. I'm done with you, and I hope to god you realise that soon so we can part ways as amicably as possible.

[Calaer]

I hope that they see you for who you really are. I want your rights taken away and for you to be thrown in jail where you can rot for the rest of your life.

[Kate*]

You realize when you come after me like that that it's YOUR lack of maturity that shows, right? Be an adult for crying out loud!

I'm not doing it for the sympathy, although you're welcome to believe that. This is my new reality, not everyone gets a happy ending.

I'm probably not going to do that. The question is anonymous for a reason and if you can't or won't comment publicly then I have to wonder why.