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This is for the girls. What is the important features you look for in a guy?
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I have other things I like, but if the guy is awesome in other aspects, I can overlook them. But those one's up there are pretty much what I want. Of course, it changes from person to person, so this won't be true for everyone. |
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I have a question for guys...how patient would you be if your girlfriend or person that you liked was raped?..like would yu wait for her to be ready to do things? or not?
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I wouldn't even be concerned about a relationship, but rather helping them cope with what they went through and make them feel better again. That will take more time, but if they want a relationship to have someone there who understands and sees their point of view, then I might consider a relationship.
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Why are men so intimidated by smart women?
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I think that often it isn't simply being a smart girl that intimidates guys. However, a girl who constantly makes a point of demonstrating her smarts could well be seen as unattractive. No-one likes a know-it-all, and there's still an assumption that girls should be less assertive. Also, it can often be the case that it isn't really the intelligence scaring guys away. While it's obviously possible to be both smart and physically attractive (:D), girls who trade heavily on their intelligence in the dating market tend to be those who don't have more primal things going for them. Is it actually your intelligence scaring people away, or are you just not physically attractive? |
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since im shy i usually have the hardest time putting it out there that im in to a guy, how am i supposed to get your attention? To everyone... Why do people think it is such a big joke to be Blonde? |
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There is actually a very interesting story behind the origins of the "dumb blonde" stereotype. Anyway, once the media picks up on an idea and runs with it, it's very hard to do away with the stereotype. If you have blonde hair, the way I see it, you can do one of two things: dye your hair a different color, or laugh along with the occasional blonde joke. EVERYONE deals with stereotypes, regardless of your gender, race, age, economic status, etc. It's all in how you choose to handle the stereotype. =) |
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Okay another question, i havent gotten my first kiss yet and my friends think its weird since im going in to highschool next year.. i mean i want to save it for a serious relationship but i havent found a good guy yet. Should i really make this big a deal out of it? or should i just get it over with? I mean its just a kiss, right? |
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For Girls, is it true nice guys finish last?
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I have an open question, but I don't feel like it's worth my own thread, so please, feel free to give me input here. (This is for the ladies, by the way)
If you have a guy friend who is in love with you, would you rather he tell you to get it out in the open, or not say anything in order to prevent awkwardness in your friendship? |
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I think a lot of girls will tell you that they would want to know, because to a certain degree, many girls have had crushes on their close male friends from time to time. To be honest, though, whenever friends have told ME how they feel, it's felt awkward. That's probably because, once I'm close friends with a guy, they're firmly in the "friend zone". The only friends who stand a chance are people whom I've just met or don't know too well. It really is going to depend on each girl, though. For example, I tend to be very direct when I like someone. If a friend likes me... well, chances are I don't like him back, because if I DID, I would have asked him before he had asked me! Many girls are too nervous to tell friends they like them, though... so sometimes, it's not awkward at all, and it leads to amazing relationships. =) Some people can also avoid much of the awkwardness... but I'm not one of those people. xD |
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How do u know when u really like a guy How is is like on ur period Would you die for a loved one When will you know when a guy is horney:bleh: |
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As far as what it's like being on my period, again, that's something that's different for all women. The only thing I experience during my period is the mood aspect of it. I have terrible moods. But physically, I don't really suffer for it. This is a complicated question, so I'll say it'd depend entirely on the situation. And if it's someone you're romantically involved with, then I would say you learn to pick up on the cues. On top of that, there's a gut feeling that pretty much kicks into play even if you're not involved with that person. |
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Why is it that when I ask a girl (even one I'm not in love with) what she wants for Christmas or her birthday, she says she doesn't want anything.... and then drops hints everywhere about things she wants. Why not just say "It would be nice if you could get me ______"? I don't care about subtlety. If you want it, and I asked if you want something, then I should try to get it for you, and you shouldn't beat around the bush about it. :bleh:
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Because girls tend to be subtle about lots of things. =P It's hard for most girls to overcome that initial feeling of, "Oh my gosh, I'll sound sooo selfish if I ask for [object]." They may also want to avoid putting pressure on you, or they may say, "Nothing," out of politeness. They may worry that you won't be able to find the object in question, or you won't be able to afford it. Girls have sooo many reasons for NOT being more direct. So the next time a girl says, "I don't want anything," wait a day or two, then approach her again and say, "No, seriously, what would you like for your birthday?" Sometimes, when confronted a second time, girls will cave in and tell you what they're really thinking. =P It will also help you avoid all the subtle hints, because you'll get a real answer the second time you ask. Good luck! |
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There's a balance. I don't feel it's black or white, "skinnier" or "fatter," because it depends on how you define either of those words. I can't say any of my male friends have been attracted to someone bordering on being obese, but they aren't keen on Victoria's Secret models either. They all generally fall in some sort of a spectrum, but whether that's liking women fit/toned or with a soft tummy, all of that has still been in the healthy middle of "skinnier" and "fatter." I think it also has to do with height/build, too, and proportions, at least for me. Some people I don't even notice are on the bigger end, or rather, it doesn't register for me as that that person is overweight, whereas someone could be the same weight but of a different height and build and if I were asked, I would probably pin them as overweight. But all of my guy friends, and it seems a lot of guys in general, prefer something to hold on to, as opposed to feeling like the person is all-fragile and all-bones, and oftentimes, they prefer this in someone who's within a healthy range of their BMI. |
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Other than that, it's kind of a possessive thing. Like, you may be broken up, but your ex still sort of feels like your ex. To put it in a better light, you share a history with your ex. You felt a connection to them. And sometimes, even when you're over them, it's hard to see them have a new connection with someone so close to you. And sometimes, friends just vow not to date their friends' exes for a variety of reasons, one being that the ex in question has already been deemed unacceptable. Haha. |
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Alright. Ladies, what are the best ways to tell if you like a guy?
Details about me and this girl: -Used to hang out a lot -Haven't seen each other in mad long -at the moment only talk on facebook/texts -Always been easy to make her laugh, she laughs hard, even at shit I really don't think is that funny -lotsa smiley faces my way Before I start dropping hints at her or actually tell her, I'd like to be a little more confident in my chances. |
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I have a crush on a girl who's consistently in the top five of her class. Truth be told, if a girl is too unintelligent or ditzy, I can't have a conversation with her, so I lose interest in just about everything else about her. A smart woman is an engaging woman. An engaging woman can keep my attention. And that makes both of us happy. I think that some men are intimidated by smarter women because they want to feel superior in every part of the relationship, and a woman's brains outwitting a man's just bothers the guy for some stupid egotistical reason. |
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Hmm.. first time seeing this thread, and I grabbed some of the earlier questions that I thought were interesting
Q:I'm completely oblivious to being hit on. If it happens to me I never catch on. If a guy talks to me I think he's just being friendly. Are there any signs that I can look for if a guy is hitting on me? - lol, I actually wish more girls were like this because it's awkward to talk to someone and have a nice chat if they think you are just trying to hit on them O.o Q: For the guys: What would your ideal girlfriend be like, what qualities would she have, personality and looks-wise. - I would be interested in anyone, as long as there is a connection between us. Someone whose company I enjoy and someone want to be closer to and be around. Other than that I think everyone is attracted to people of a certain type. For me it's girls that are open with their feelings and don't over think things, always active and in the moment, energetic and happy, and are still capable of smart/deep/critical thinking. I like someone who has interests of their own and their own life who also wants to be a part of mine and openly shows their love and trust. Q if you are doing something that your gf dislikes, how would you like to be told? - Straight forward, but still politely. It's waaay better to talk about it sooner than later. I don't want to be doing something they don't like and have them feel too timid to say something about it. Soo here's my question, for guys or girls, What puts you off towards someone, what makes you not want to talk with them, maybe even online? |
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Conversely, I don't like someone who comes off too strong or who dominates the conversation themselves. By coming off too strong, I mean someone who's extremely flirty or especially too affectionate too quickly. I don't need to be told how much someone would like to do me during the first or second conversation any more than I need to be told how special I am yadda yadda. It comes off as desperate. And I don't like someone who's constantly on about themselves and respond with one word answers or none at all when I try talking about me. It's all about a balance, I s'pose? Conversation is about give and take and so is relating to someone. Some people can't read others to save their lives, but that's when you stop looking for the physical cues/body language and start listening to what's being said. It's usually pretty obvious when someone's not returning the same strength or level of conversation that you're putting out there. This is what puts me off from talking to people both online and IRL. There are other things, sure, but those are the few that prevent me from even giving the other person a chance, really. |
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