Questions for the opposite sex

[Amorphous.]

I don't do it and I don't understand it so I have no idea. For the girls: What's the best date you can ever imagine?

[TigerTank77]

Originally Posted by S k i z t e r

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Question for the guys: What really makes a guy cheat on their girlfriend?

There are a multitude of reasons.

But barring any deep seeded psychological issues, generally it's a combination of a lack of respect, and another girl offering him what his girlfriend wont give him.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Oneirophobia

For the girls, is "bad boy" an attractive style?

Not going to lie, for me it is. I think its because those kinds of people tend to be more interesting to me. However its best to just be yourself.

Originally Posted by Oneirophobia

For the girls: What's the best date you can ever imagine?

Honestly there are numerous answers for this in my eyes. The best date for me would be with someone who I am really crazy about, and it would be great to be able to just be alone and talk. Lots of cuddling while watching a good movie would be really nice too.
The person I'm with wold really define how great of a date it was though.

[Some kid]

this ones to the girls.
why do girls throw the word love around so non-chalantly when with someone they know have strong feelings for them is it just to play around or??

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Some kid

this ones to the girls.
why do girls throw the word love around so non-chalantly when with someone they know have strong feelings for them is it just to play around or??

Girls are more tentative to express their feelings than boys are as most of us know. That being said, girls love making sure that people know we love them, whether its friendship love or romantic love. So when a girl knows that somebody has strong feelings for them, saying they love them is usually a friendship love and its probably because they feel bad that they don't return the same feelings or they are flattered and appreciate the attention that person is giving them.
If this is happening to you and its bothering you, its best to talk to her about it and tell her its confusing for you. I'm sure she'd understand- she may not even realize her words are affecting you like this.

[Jack Lowden]

Originally Posted by Oneirophobia

the girls: What's the best date you can ever imagine?

I'm honestly fine with most things as long as I'm with the person I really like. So it could be hanging around the house for a movie night & I'd still think it's perfect.

Originally Posted by Some kid

this ones to the girls.
why do girls throw the word love around so non-chalantly when with someone they know have strong feelings for them is it just to play around or??

I've known guys to do this as well, so it's not just girls. However, I think a lot of teenagers throw that word around too lightly but as they date more & find out what love really is, they learn to use it more wisely.

[emochick4]

Ive liked one of my good friends for a while but he just started coming to my school but ive liked him for a year we havent talked much in real life though he used to like me but now im kinda stuck in the friend zone how do i get out? I also really wanna talk to him but i am way to shy and he is always with other friends so how am i supposed to talk to him? And what should i say?

[bonnie123]

Is it True once a cheat always as cheat? can guys change?

[Validity]

MOst times, no, but if someone has learned a lesson from cheating, like for example, they realise they couldn't live without the person they're in a relationship with they might be able. But, the guys AND girls who have cheated once do often in every relationship following cheat.

OKay, my question, for the males out there. If the girl is really nice, not overweight but has some fat, bigger breasts than average but is extremely damaged and hurt so they don't know how to get close to you, would you date her? Even if she never really opens up to you?

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by emochick4

Ive liked one of my good friends for a while but he just started coming to my school but ive liked him for a year we havent talked much in real life though he used to like me but now im kinda stuck in the friend zone how do i get out? I also really wanna talk to him but i am way to shy and he is always with other friends so how am i supposed to talk to him? And what should i say?

Sadly you can't really get out of the friendzone. If he doesn't see you in that way then you can't really do anything to change that.
As for talking to him, you could plan to go do something with some of your friends and invite him and let him bring a friend or two. That way he won't be surrounded by his friends and since you'll all be having fun you should have opportunities to talk to him.

Originally Posted by bonnie123

Is it True once a cheat always as cheat? can guys change?

It is very possible for a guy to realize the consequences of his mistake and never do it again. However you should still take things slow until you can trust him because whether he will change or not depends entirely on the guy.

[Jack Lowden]

Originally Posted by bonnie123

Is it True once a cheat always as cheat? can guys change?

It isn't always true. People can change. However, it can definitely make trusting them harder.

[SamMarie]

Originally Posted by bonnie123

Is it True once a cheat always as cheat? can guys change?

That's how the saying goes, but it is true to an extent. Guys and girls can change, if they decide that on their own. I don't believe anyone can change anyone else. Cheaters are more likely to cheat again which makes it true. It all depends who they are and the situation.

[PsyGwendok]

Originally Posted by Hope To Cope

OKay, my question, for the males out there. If the girl is really nice, not overweight but has some fat, bigger breasts than average but is extremely damaged and hurt so they don't know how to get close to you, would you date her? Even if she never really opens up to you?

Well, the weight isn't something I'd completely ignore, that's obvious, but I wouldn't "not look" at someone just because of a few pounds. That being said, the person would have to at least try to get my attention in case I didn't feel that spark in the first place. But if I liked the girl, I would date her regardless of she being a bit fat. The problem here would be not opening up. I would see that as a trust issue, and if I like to have even my close friends telling me all that bothers them, so that I can try and help them, and if I like to tell the people who are close to me what bothers me, I don't think I could date someone who'd never really open up to me. If she changed after we were in the relationship, then there would be no problems for me in that.

I don't think I really have anything to ask, hopefully on a near future

[Sylinagigirox2012]

Questions for males:
How could a girl approach you and tell you she likes you without feeling small and intimidated?
If you like a girl, is there a reason you wouldn't tell her?
What put a girl "out of your league" aside from looks?
What signs should a girl pick up on if she is seeing if a guy is interested in her?

[Validity]

For the guys.

What are the most obvious things you do that reflect that you like a girl? BUt, say you're shy and don't talk to her much. What would you do?

Jay.

[madmax0116]

Originally Posted by Hope To Cope

For the guys.

What are the most obvious things you do that reflect that you like a girl? BUt, say you're shy and don't talk to her much. What would you do?

Jay.

Well, I would try to make her laugh, offer to help her with homework and other stuff. I would also look at her all the time from the corner of my eye.

For the girls, is love really all you need? If a guy loved you more than anything, no matter how ugly or poor he was, would you be with him? I just heard this in a chick flick, so... :

[Doodle.]

For the guys. Why do you take so long to text/Facebook message back (even though you have read it because it says so on Facebook)?

[theinfatuatedpanda]

For the guys: Why are you so confusing? -_-
Would you thing a girl is desperate if she asks you out or makes the first move?
Do looks matter in a relationship?

[Validity]

Originally Posted by madmax0116

For the girls, is love really all you need? If a guy loved you more than anything, no matter how ugly or poor he was, would you be with him? I just heard this in a chick flick, so... :

Well, I don't care that much about looks, love isn't all we need. For me I feel like if he treats me right, but not clingy as well, would be prepared for a few emotional breakdowns etc then yeah, possibly I'd date him if I like him as well. If he just loves me, I'd think it was creepy and would be scared off, lol. I have a guy that drools every time I walk by, very annoying..

Question for the male species: Why is it so hard to get you guys to open up? Is it an ego thing or something?
Also, why do guys request images of a girl's body? Not going to cause an argument but isn't it disrespectful? And what are you trying to acheive by asking for it?

Jay.

[larsenv]

Question for the boys: Do you like when girls make the first move or do you prefer the "chase"?

[MadCat]

Originally Posted by larsenv

Question for the boys: Do you like when girls make the first move or do you prefer the "chase"?

It honestly depends on what type of boy you're talking about. I myself am pretty shy, or introverted. I can make the first move if I have to, but if I like a girl and she makes the first move... I'd honestly melt.

Although to tell you the truth, if I'm going after a girl's affection because I know she likes me, then I guess I wouldn't mind.

(Just don't expect me to buy a gold plate necklace just to get your attention. You're getting a corny love poem and you're gonna like it! )

Now a question for the girls: What do you really like in a guy? Is it personality? Or is it accomplishments and what he does for fun? Would you say that a guy who is nice but doesn't do much besides go to school and go home to play video games or whatever to be boyfriend material? (But if she wants to show me someplace cool or she wants to eat out somewhere, I'm perfectly fine with that.)

[SouthernBelle.]

Originally Posted by MadCat

Now a question for the girls: What do you really like in a guy? Is it personality? Or is it accomplishments and what he does for fun? Would you say that a guy who is nice but doesn't do much besides go to school and go home to play video games or whatever to be boyfriend material? (But if she wants to show me someplace cool or she wants to eat out somewhere, I'm perfectly fine with that.)

Every girl's different, but I think we can all agree that we go on physical attractiveness as much as personality, though what's attractive to one isn't often what's attractive to another. On the matter of accomplishments, I think it's grand if a guy has some accomplishment in the workplace; the more accomplished he is, the more likely I am to get serious about the person in question, 'cause I'd never worry about being supported. However, if you're asking whether basketball players or something seem more attractive because they're more "accomplished," then no, girls generally don't care.

And, I like nice guys, but I don't like guys which are too nice. I, personally, have dated a nice stay-at-home gamer before, and that didn't turn out as a complete wreck while I was dating him, so I don't judge. But you'll get some girls who mind.



For the guys, and just out of curiosity: Do most guys that you know tend to fall for successful women, or down-to-earth ones? Why?

[Ghost On The Highway]

Mostly down-to-earth. Type A guys need relaxed girls to balance out their insecurities and aggression lol

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by MadCat

Now a question for the girls: What do you really like in a guy? Is it personality? Or is it accomplishments and what he does for fun? Would you say that a guy who is nice but doesn't do much besides go to school and go home to play video games or whatever to be boyfriend material? (But if she wants to show me someplace cool or she wants to eat out somewhere, I'm perfectly fine with that.)

I look for a guy who I at least find cute because relationships need that physical attraction. Personality-wise, I tend to be attracted to guys who are confident and funny. It helps a lot if they have the same taste in music and also love horror movies as much as I do. As long as a guy goes to school or work and doesn't just sit around all day, then it's fine. I prefer if he has some goals as to what he wants to do in life. And the last thing is I love dark hair on guys and body mods such as piercings or tattoos (however there are some piercings I don't care for), but these aren't required.

[J-man]

Originally Posted by Sylinagigirox2012

Questions for males:
How could a girl approach you and tell you she likes you without feeling small and intimidated?
If you like a girl, is there a reason you wouldn't tell her?
What put a girl "out of your league" aside from looks?
What signs should a girl pick up on if she is seeing if a guy is interested in her?

1 - Hey I like you would you like to go out some time
2 - Lack of confidence, she might have a boyfriend, don't want to make things awkward
3 - Dating experience, being 'too perfect'
4 - Offering to spend time with her e.g. going with her to the library/town. Also the way/how much the guy talks with her when around other people.

Originally Posted by YOLO ♥

For the guys: Why are you so confusing? -_-
Would you thing a girl is desperate if she asks you out or makes the first move?
Do looks matter in a relationship?

1 - Back at you! :P
2 - Definitely not. I would like this, and tbh I think most guys would as well.
3 - Depends. If someone is shallow, then yes. If you are a great match personality wise then most guys would hopefully overlook any perceived 'unattractiveness'

[Digit.]

Originally Posted by Sylinagigirox2012

Questions for males:
How could a girl approach you and tell you she likes you without feeling small and intimidated?
If you like a girl, is there a reason you wouldn't tell her?
What put a girl "out of your league" aside from looks?
What signs should a girl pick up on if she is seeing if a guy is interested in her?

1) I would love if a girl was upfront and told me directly if it's hard to say it to me then a signed note would work perfectly or ask one of your friends to tell me.
2)I wouldn't tell her because if she dosent feel the same it would be awkward and I couldn't hang out with them especially if I thought they were to good for me.
3)Usually how popular she is and how popular and cool who she hangs out with are.
4)To find out I would ask his friends to find out for you. When I like someone I try to make them laugh i'll find myself staring at them and occasionly zoning out also making excuses to hang out with them and complimenting them not so that it's obvious i like them but friendly.