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I have two jobs - a full-time day job and a weekend pub job. A few weeks ago while I was working at my pub job, I had a really rough night. Since then, I've been anxious about going back. I'm just so tired emotionally, mentally and physically all the time and I know it's down to working too much. Essentially there were a lot of customers that were intoxicated that night and there was problem after problem that the majority, if not all of the time, I had to deal with and handle. The assistant manager I felt like was just hiding upstairs in the office. Tomorrow I have an extremely long day and Covid-19 cases have surged over here. I don't know how much more of this I can take.
I am so sorry about all of this and I hope that you will be okay soon. Would you be able to maybe find a different second job that you enjoy going to work everyday? I'm sorry you have to work two, maybe you can find a different job so that you don't have to work two of them. When we are going to work everyday and we do not like who we are working with or the people who are coming in, this can upset us. When you have others come in and how they are acting try not to get upset because this is going to upset us more and bring us down. If you are able to walk away for a few minutes to try to calm down and then go back to what you we're doing and try not to think about what is happening and hopefully your night will go by fast and then you can go home. I hope that you will be okay soon and everything works out for you too. Sending you lots of to help you to be okay soon.
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I am so sorry about all of this and I hope that you will be okay soon. Would you be able to maybe find a different second job that you enjoy going to work everyday? I'm sorry you have to work two, maybe you can find a different job so that you don't have to work two of them. When we are going to work everyday and we do not like who we are working with or the people who are coming in, this can upset us. When you have others come in and how they are acting try not to get upset because this is going to upset us more and bring us down. If you are able to walk away for a few minutes to try to calm down and then go back to what you we're doing and try not to think about what is happening and hopefully your night will go by fast and then you can go home. I hope that you will be okay soon and everything works out for you too. Sending you lots of to help you to be okay soon.
Thank you for your reply.
I've been searching for a better job but it is a tough at the moment.