I am getting bullied!

[swervy]

I used to get bullied by this boy about 12 or 13 years old he ignored me last time we walked down town but today he barked at me by saying woof woof woof at me i am 26 and he is seeing a psychologist but he does it only to me not my mum only me I ignored him this time as soon as I smiled at him he shut up what can I do? my mum says to ignore him but he turned around when he went past me and barked at me he didnt turn around and look at mum and say it he only done it when he seen me. He only does it when he sees me! He doesnt listen to anyone either.

[Chris]

I think you should also ignore him as much as possible - remember he doesn't control your life, you do... So next time you see him give him a huge smile and ignore all he says. Your the one being a grown up and walking away from a stupid situation - make him feel like the rude one.

I would also try to avoid him as much as possible. Wherever you think he is, don't go that way or don't go near him. The more you don't see him, the better.

Best wishes,
Chris

[swervy]

He comes up to me all the time and says rude things like calling me a dog, whore, cunt and things he blames me for everything for everything he does or says what he does and says he blames me I have been bullied right through school and now i've left school it still happening! i have stood up for myself but nothing i do or say works. he annoys me with verbal abuse even when I dont say or do any thing even when i ignore him. His cousin apologised to us last week for calling us cunts and things and when she didnt get our attention when we ignored her she used to sing out at other people near us that walked past so she could get them to listen to her aswell and join in. @ women ignored her when she said hey why dont u say hello to me then next time u little cunts oh sorry I was talkin 2 those 2 little cunts and she pointed at us. She wanted attention and never got it from those 2 women. She and her friend came up 2 me one day with my mum and she told her friend something then her friend says hey your daughters a whore look at her she dresses like a little slut.

[Chris]

I'm sorry you have to deal with the bullying. Here are the options that you have and can use:

1) ignore them as you have and try to stay away from them as much as possible.
2) Fight back - stand up
3) Get police involved next time the verbal abuse happens. (this in some parts of the world like the United States is harassment and can lead to criminal charges)

I hope this helped alittle.

You can always message me if you need me.

Best wishes,
Chris

[swervy]

I cant call the police anymore they said wed have to take them to court but these kids will lie through their teeth like they always do and they always say we did it and that they didnt do it.

[Chris]

Well than get evidence. Take record it, save texts and emails of bad messages from them - get some kind of evidence.

See, I feel like you are making up excuses - I think that YOU think that you wont be able to get out of this situation so you are shutting down all options. Listen, this wont stop until YOU do something. So you either ignore them, play the game they are playing, or you file charges (or get other elders/authorities involved). Those are your choices, plain and simple.


Best wishes,
Chris