Help I'am Being Cyber Bullied For Being Goth

[DeadDoveWitch333]

I'am 14 years old and I'am Being Cyber Bullied cause first They started out as Internet Friends that I met at Online High School and now they say really Mean and very Nasty things about me like I'am Too Ugly and Too Skinny with no Breasts.

My bullies also say that Goths smell really Bad and are Losers but I don't Care what They say about me being Gothic but now They say That they will Beat Me up/Steal My Medicine and that is what has me deeply Worried.

Most of my annoying Bullies are other Girls and They say that My Family is White Trash Hillbillies. They also say that I don't really have Sezuires and Headaches and that I'am Pretending for Attention but I'am really Sick and I need My Meds.

[Arabesque- golfing girl.]

I'm sorry about this, try talking to someone at school. Hope you will be okay soon.

[LukHD]

Originally Posted by DeadDoveWitch333

I'am 14 years old and I'am Being Cyber Bullied cause first They started out as Internet Friends that I met at Online High School and now they say really Mean and very Nasty things about me like I'am Too Ugly and Too Skinny with no Breasts.

My bullies also say that Goths smell really Bad and are Losers but I don't Care what They say about me being Gothic but now They say That they will Beat Me up/Steal My Medicine and that is what has me deeply Worried.

Most of my annoying Bullies are other Girls and They say that My Family is White Trash Hillbillies. They also say that I don't really have Sezuires and Headaches and that I'am Pretending for Attention but I'am really Sick and I need My Meds.

Hey!
Sorry to hear what you're going through.
Firstly acknowledge that they have no right to judge your life as it is, you're the only one (other than your parents) who knows what's best and what's worst for you.


Secondly, bullies are simply problematic people, their behaviour isn't your fault and they're often jealous of their prey. Pay attention to their insults, For example them referring to you as "skinny" can be seen as a compliment, They're jealous because you can be happy without having to hurt others like others do, They're jealous because you have an unique style and you stand out. You are better than your bully and they can't stand it.


But please do not ignore this, remember that bullies are thirsty of reactions, they love seeing people crying an attention-seeking from the crowd, Do not answer to their texts.
If they get invasive, or exaggerate, report their account and their messages, If the situation worsens tell your parents.



Here's a quick tip: Picture them as immature two year olds calling you nicknames


Hope I've been helpful!

[Proud90sKid]

Originally Posted by DeadDoveWitch333

I'am 14 years old and I'am Being Cyber Bullied cause first They started out as Internet Friends that I met at Online High School and now they say really Mean and very Nasty things about me like I'am Too Ugly and Too Skinny with no Breasts.

My bullies also say that Goths smell really Bad and are Losers but I don't Care what They say about me being Gothic but now They say That they will Beat Me up/Steal My Medicine and that is what has me deeply Worried.

Most of my annoying Bullies are other Girls and They say that My Family is White Trash Hillbillies. They also say that I don't really have Sezuires and Headaches and that I'am Pretending for Attention but I'am really Sick and I need My Meds.

Way back when I was 13, I was cyberbullied by people at school but fortunately in none of my classes. I felt down for about a month and then blocked them and felt better soon after. I worried that blocking them would make me look weak, but in the end it didnt matter because these people quickly disappeared from my mind. I learned to appreciate real friendships afterwards. You need to make it so that nothing they say reaches you so that they no longer get a response from it; the reaction from you is ultimately what is fueling their behavior. If it happens on the online high school chat then you can tell them to stop and report it if it continues. Im sure chat is saved as it would be a huge liability to have a chatroom for minors that wasnt back-traceable, maybe even illegal.

[Astro04]

I'm very sorry to read that.
Bullies do that because they're envious of what you are (in this case). Don't do their game, it will only be worse. Block them instantly. Don't be afraid if they told you're weak, they aren't strong enough to unlock theirself.