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issue with my grandma

she is a narcsisst so im not surprised were fighting over her constant need of attention. She knows I have conduct disorder, so I can be a bitch sometimes. "Why are you always so mean!?" YOu know why cunt....I hate her so fucking much. she so attention seeking and bratty. She made me feel guilty for having CD now and I wish I could change. I said "Youre the oldets one in the house which means u need to man up sometimes and stfu" and that didn't go over well. I went outside crying because she told me to fuck off and I needed to man up. IM 12! she also touches me innaproprietly sometimes. She'll grab my thigh or butt sometimes and it really grosses me out man. I don't know what to do about it since my parents don't know but she hasn't done it in a while so I don't feel like I should tell someone anymore....RAHHHH//

bye....
maddie

Re: issue with my grandma

I know it can be hard to limit contact with the people in our families, but I would try to reduce the amount of communication you have with her if at all possible. For example, if your parents say that they are going over your grandma's house, maybe you can ask if you can stay home and do something around the house instead. You don't have to answer 100% of her phone calls if she calls you either. If you do have to go to her house or another area where she is, you don't have to talk to her much. Maybe talk to the other family members more if there is anyone else there.

I think it's worth telling your parents. I've had people touch my thigh before without it being sexual but rather a sign of affection, but that doesn't mean it's not uncomfortable. She might not mean anything wrong by it if this is the case, but she might also not know it's bothering you and your parents can tell her not to do it anymore.