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Sex problems/ addiction?
This fits into a bunch of categories, so I just put it here...
I recently hooked up with a girl and we both lost our virginity to each other. I have a lot in common with her, and I do really like her, except every day I see her, all of our contact has been sex. She is cute and she said she considers me 'hot' (I have no idea why, I have kind of a six pack but never been told I was good looking) so she does raised my self confidence, since I have been very depressed lately. It's only been a few days since I've known her, but we are obsessed with each other. She lives fairly far away, so when we are not having sex, I am with her on the computer doing something sexual. I have an orgasm about 3 or 4 times a day. Even though I am new to sex, it ends up being an hour or two we are with each other and I can end up going again and again. The past 2 days I have called sick into work to drive over and have sex. When my mind is not clouded by the tiredness from all of this, it's clouded because I am still so horny all of the time. She's been 'sexting' me while she's in class like crazy which is even hotter. When we do have sex, I am always very tense and don't relax to 'build up' the feeling. It is still amazing, so I don't know what I am doing wrong, since the only thing that ever stops the sex is we are too sore to go on. The last time we were both so turned on, we didn't even bother with any sort of foreplay and went into it right away. Am I addicted to sex, are we doing things too fast? (she said she loves it, and so do I). |
Re: Sex problems/ addiction?
Hey there!
I wouldn't say that you are addicted to sex, but if you don't take things down a notch, it could head into that direction. It's okay to have sex with someone you aren't in a relationship in, this most likely adds up to the friends with benefits thing. That's what you two are. Becoming completely obsessed with each other is not healthy whatsoever. You both need to calm down, and start to take things slowly. Are you using protection? Is she on birth control? You've got to think of the consequences that come along with having sex. Just because she was a virgin, doesn't mean that she doesn't have an STD which could very easily be given to you if you don't use a condom, not to mention to the chance of an unplanned pregnancy. Just start to slow down some. There is nothing wrong with liking sex, but it's headed in the direction where it's going to take over your life. Excuse me if I'm wrong, but your job is so much more worth sex! |
Re: Sex problems/ addiction?
Actually, the fact it's interfering with your life (you are missing work) is a sign of addiction.
You may not be addicted now, but will be if this continues. I completely agree with the above post. |
Re: Sex problems/ addiction?
For just having lost your virginity a few days ago and are fucking like rabbits with your gf, I think your reaction is normal. Now quit calling in sick and go to work.
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Re: Sex problems/ addiction?
You should definitely so things down, maybe what you mentioned about being tense is a part of it? MAYBE (I DUNNO) not being tense during the sex might help with the urges.
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Re: Sex problems/ addiction?
I don't think it's anything of an addiction because you found someone you're affectionate with and it's not unusual to continue to want to have sex with her over and over again. Go to work to make money plus there would be an amazing greeting when you're back.
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