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Well, this is a very sore subject, but w/e ill say it...i guess im doing betteer,,, butt i FINALLY got the dude put away, it was weird...i hadda..identify him...and see him again...it was..just wrong...but i know i did the right thing, and like...saved all the other teen girls that are just having fun..=/ but...seriously ....never ever leave your drink EVER laying around nd pick it back up....my stupid ass did and it got me no where good...but yea, i stood up for mah self...it was terribly hard but hez in jail fer a long ass time=DD
well idunno just an update=p
if any of yuh guyz member me talking about it...
in like febuaryish...
im still recovering from it, and terrified to do anything with guyz...
im kinda even afraid of them like touching me..=/...
i have gone to parties since but, i make sure i dnt leave mah friends side
being raped was the worst thing that could possibly happen to meh...
but it did make me very aware and alert...that there are assholes out there that do it...
and just could imagin how many dont get caught...which makes me shiver.....
idunno...thats just mah opinon...only if they could know...how effed up they make our lives...and how we will never be the same....
i hope the dude that did it to me and the other girls at the party rots in jail....-.-
sorry rly hadda get that out...i havent talked about this in a long time....still hurts ...a loot...wish i cood get over it-.-

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hey hun,
well done for IDing him, that was really brave.
And you shouldn't try and force yourself to feel better, or do what you aren't comfortable doing, if anything it'll make you feel worse.
If you ever need anything PM me okay? :)
Amelia x

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Cassie,

Let me just say, you are an inspiration. I mean that. It's not just icing. Many people suffer from hidden rape and abuse, they go years surviving and simply hide it when they're free. It's understandable; hiding. You're all strong for simply surviving. I find that stories like these are an inspiration though. Not only to those suffering, but for some who may in the future. I remember hearing a story of a girl who stood up for herself because she heard of another girl doing the same. It can be a light when everything feels to be getting dark.

I know it's hard. Coming out, was hard. Confronting, was hard. And everything else that followed is probably the same. But, you will recover. I know it. You can show him and every other person alike him that we won't let them take us down with them. I think you showed that. You should be very proud of yourself. Very. You saved other victims. It might not feel like that completely, but in time. You're still healing too.

I hope this all gets a little easier for you. Even though it can't be erased, I think dealing with it can make us stronger. We can turn this around into a positive gain for us, somehow. Take care <3

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Congratulations Cassie. What you did took a heck of alot of strength and courage. I'm really proud of you. As Melissa said, you are an inspiration.

I know you can get past this, it'll hurt, I don't know if that'll ever stop completely. It WILL get better though. Just keep fighting on.

*hug* PM me anytime, I'm always here to help you with anything.

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I would just like to say that you're a voice for those that are afraid to speak. I'm proud of you.

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Hey Cassie,

We haven't talked in awhile and I hope you're doing okay. I just want to let you know how proud I am. It takes an insane about of courage and strength to go through all of that but I think you'll agree with me when I say it was worth it. Putting him in jail not only ensures your safety but it also prevents him from abusing so many potential victims. You are a hero in my book. I hope more people are able to follow in your example. The majority of rape victims never report what happened an in essences never regain control over the situation. However, you stood up for yourself and took control of your life and your rights. Take care of yourself and stay strong. You really are an amazing person.

Lots of love <3 Mimi