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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 4th 2015, 10:15 PM
I've been listening to music and reading a lot  . And talking to my friends helps too..
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March 5th 2015, 03:38 PM
Drawing and reading comics.
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
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March 6th 2015, 04:43 AM
I watched a movie and baked cookies. 
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 6th 2015, 02:36 PM
This may sound odd, but drinking tea. It helps calm me down and help me relax, so I'm not as tense and I just overall feel better.
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
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March 6th 2015, 03:53 PM
Watching YouTube videos, listening to music, studying, and reading.
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March 7th 2015, 05:54 AM
Cracking glow sticks and waiting for the glow to fade as well as listening to music.
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March 7th 2015, 06:51 PM
Cuddling with Ava while watching Sesame Street.
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
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March 7th 2015, 11:47 PM
Going for a walk and taking my siblings to the water hole to go swimming. 
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March 8th 2015, 05:31 PM
Taking pictures and going online.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 9th 2015, 02:49 AM
By focusing on homework and Scripture study.
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
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March 10th 2015, 07:24 AM
I've been writing poems.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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March 10th 2015, 05:14 PM
Listening to music and reading a book.
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
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March 11th 2015, 05:35 AM
I've been cleaning and reading a book for class.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 11th 2015, 02:35 PM
Shuffling cards. c:
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 14th 2015, 11:39 AM
Maybe not the best one out there but taking a nap and trying to sleep off the urges. But now I'm awake at an odd hour xD
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March 15th 2015, 07:04 AM
Making collages. 
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 15th 2015, 07:47 AM
Pushing it from my mind at first. Now I have little desire to.
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March 15th 2015, 12:33 PM
I'm Crocheting a blanket for Ava.
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
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March 16th 2015, 08:42 PM
I've been taking a lot of walks lately. I find them to be calming.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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I have the Millennium Puzzle
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March 16th 2015, 11:55 PM
Watching Doctor Who with my cats. 
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 19th 2015, 01:54 AM
Reading and listening to music.
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March 19th 2015, 02:07 AM
Doing homework, and watching Doctor Who.
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
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March 19th 2015, 02:53 AM
Doing laundry and talking to my therapist.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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March 19th 2015, 05:22 AM
Thinking of how it'd be a bad idea since I haven't for so long. Thinking about how I know I wouldn't want the consequences at all, how I don't deserve that, how it won't help me in the long run.
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March 20th 2015, 04:03 AM
Just reading and trying to keep my hands busy.
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March 20th 2015, 06:50 AM
Listening to my favorite song!
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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March 20th 2015, 07:45 AM
I've been running on the spot in my room and writing.
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March 20th 2015, 01:29 PM
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 20th 2015, 06:58 PM
I fought self-harm for over 10 years. I never quit until I stopped focusing on how long I went or how long I could go without. I met my fiance a few years back, I've dealt with significant trauma, and I have a therapist I see regularly. I have not hurt myself in a long time. I've had slips in the past few years, but I no longer do it anymore. Sure the urges are still there and probably always will be, but I have a better life now. I've become everything I ever wanted as a human being. Bettering yourself is the key. And it is not easy. It took me years to get to where I am today.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 21st 2015, 06:30 PM
By remembering that the sun is there.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 22nd 2015, 06:30 AM
Listening to music and trying to keep busy.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 22nd 2015, 06:34 AM
I was making a mini banner, working on stuff and listening to music.
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March 23rd 2015, 12:46 AM
cooking and baking.
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March 23rd 2015, 05:10 AM
I've been writing and doodling.
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March 23rd 2015, 11:13 PM
Writing, listening to Celtic Woman, and making a fishtail bracelet with the rainbow loom I got for Christmas.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 25th 2015, 05:23 AM
I've been listening to a lot of music and talking to a friend.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 25th 2015, 05:37 AM
I Skyped with my friend and she helped to distract me.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 27th 2015, 08:25 PM
By learning to love myself and treating my body with kindness.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 28th 2015, 05:14 AM
I've been watching TV with my brother and chewing on ice.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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Feline the love.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
March 31st 2015, 05:28 PM
I made a list of things I need to get done instead.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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