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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
October 9th 2013, 02:30 PM
I am going to deal with my anxiety in a healthy way. Or try to
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
October 13th 2013, 03:54 AM
I didn't, but I'm going to post around here for a little bit now to calm myself down.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
October 15th 2013, 12:38 AM
I jumped on the trampoline
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
October 23rd 2013, 02:29 AM
I put off taking my shower until I was calmer so I couldn't cut in it.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
October 29th 2013, 03:14 AM
I have found a few ways that helped over the years. I went quite a while without, thanks to the following, and gained a little bit more confidence about the whole deal.
1. Wearing a fingerless glove all the time. The inability to fully feel things with this hand will make you have a rather interesting sensation when you take the glove off. Especially interesting is washing your hands, touching things with rough textures, or touching soft things. I take my glove off and run my hand lightly along the walls when I get urges. It's fun, and if you do it right, it is a really cool fashion statement.
2. Taping paper to the wall, then using colors to express your emotions. I would put a key for colors that equal emotions, but it's really your choice. For some people, the color yellow is happy and friendly, while to others, it's nervous and cautious. It really depends on how you feel.
3. Searching funny things on Google images, or Bing images. You can lose yourself in the things, and really, how can you not laugh or smile at that stuff?
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
November 17th 2013, 09:19 PM
Playing Sims.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
November 30th 2013, 12:03 AM
I forgot to bring my tool into the bathroom with me when I took my shower and forced myself to not go get them.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
November 30th 2013, 12:26 AM
Doing homework and watching movies
"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
December 15th 2013, 06:52 AM
Staying on the computer until I am too tired to bother.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
December 22nd 2013, 04:06 AM
Got a phone call and instead of ignoring it, answered it and talked to calm down.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
December 27th 2013, 03:58 PM
I wrote a few poems.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
December 28th 2013, 08:39 PM
I was getting a headache and also convinced myself I was too tired, so I watched Netflix in bed on my Kindle instead.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
December 30th 2013, 04:31 AM
Somehow. When there's a will, there's a way, right?
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
December 31st 2013, 06:55 AM
Browsing the net for self-love guides, browse TH, read books, play video games, look up funny webcomics, listen to music, sing, and have a friendly chat with my brother or my friends through social medias.
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Re: How are you beating Self Harm? -
January 1st 2014, 06:00 PM
I'm listening to my Daughtry CD, and cleaning out my room. I think I might make my alternatives box today.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first