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July 8th 2011, 06:57 PM
14 days. probably won't make it another day. 
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 9th 2011, 02:55 PM
ive been free for over 100 days! since febuary 23rd!
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July 9th 2011, 05:50 PM
Congrats!! 21 days = 3 weeks!!
"When you've forgiven but you cant forget feels like your drowning but still got breath"
i love you.
YOU are beautiful no matter what and dont YOU forget it!!! <3
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July 11th 2011, 03:41 AM
I was 3 months, but I broke it yesterday.. I'm ready to try again though(=
Stay strong everyone<33
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July 11th 2011, 07:39 PM
Five weeks, two days.
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July 11th 2011, 08:21 PM
A week! For the second time....
My aim is to make it two 
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July 11th 2011, 08:42 PM
102 days
3 months 10 days.
Made it.
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Doing fine by design.
 Jeez, get a life!
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July 12th 2011, 01:53 AM
Thirteen months.
"Love means never having to say you're a werewolf."
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July 12th 2011, 01:59 AM
Was at roughly a year.. Now I'm at 1 day.
And I heard a voice in the midst of the four beasts,
And I looked and behold: a pale horse.
And his name, that sat on him, was Death.
And Hell followed with him.
0 days free of SH
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July 12th 2011, 01:58 PM
Eleven days. Beaten my record!!!! <3
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July 12th 2011, 11:32 PM
9 days
it was almost a year and then things went wrong for awhile but back on track now and starting fresh!!
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July 13th 2011, 01:44 AM
Five and a half weeks
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July 13th 2011, 08:36 AM
One day =(
Im so fricking dumb...
And I was doing SO good...
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July 13th 2011, 09:33 PM
Kyra, you arent dumb. You just broke. It happens to the best of us.
"When you've forgiven but you cant forget feels like your drowning but still got breath"
i love you.
YOU are beautiful no matter what and dont YOU forget it!!! <3
PM me if you need to talk!(:
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July 14th 2011, 12:02 AM
Fifteen weeks exactly. Oh em gee
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July 14th 2011, 12:09 AM
One year and two days. <3 I stopped on my brother's birthday last year.
♥
I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons.
And maybe we’ll never know most of them.
But even if we don’t have the power to choose where we come from,
we can still choose where we go from there.
We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.
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July 14th 2011, 10:07 AM
Over two months  wooohoooo
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July 14th 2011, 10:30 AM
Must be a good 5 days now.
Well done everyone, you're all doing so well. You CAN beat this. Keep it up.
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July 14th 2011, 05:30 PM
Yay! Back at the 1 month mark now
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July 15th 2011, 05:22 PM
One hundred and six days
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Three months fourteen days.
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July 15th 2011, 05:25 PM
About 40ish minutes 
*feeling completely awful*
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July 15th 2011, 06:01 PM
Over a year now, not sure exactly when.
Self pity will not rescue you.
Sometimes we have to save our own lives,
not because no one else cares, but because no one else can.
Life for you has been less than kind
So take a number, stand in line
We've all been sorry, we've all been hurt
But how we survive is what makes us who we are.
Dreamed up the maps, give me the charcoal and the paper
We invent paths they cannot see, and they're too scared to walk
Only after disaster can we be resurrected. It's only after you've lost everything that you are free to do anything.
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July 15th 2011, 06:15 PM
About a month I think... I don't like counting
When life gives you one thousand reasons to cry, show life one million reasons to SMILE!
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July 15th 2011, 07:10 PM
20 days. almost 3 weeks.
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 15th 2011, 09:55 PM
TWO WEEKS!!!
Take that, baby!
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July 15th 2011, 11:05 PM
somehow, if i make it, tomorrow will be two months... yay? :\
formerly snowstorm, GoneBeyondRepair, and Breathless in Love Repose en Paix, Grandad/mom H., Sito, Nay, Mary, Aunt S., Peter, Katie, Lexi, Mrs. Radoye, Mandii, Trevor, Megan, Uncle T., Erika, Aunt R., Braxton, Connie, Adam, Grandpa, Buttons, Aunt Barb, Pi, Grandma ♥ The world will bleed its bloody tale. People will throw their stones. But the one thing you must always remember is: You no longer walk alone. -Blake Bliss
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July 17th 2011, 08:42 PM
I am on day 5!!! this is the longest I have been able to go...
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July 18th 2011, 03:35 AM
29 months 
Honey, you're familiar, like my mirror, years ago ..... I slithered here from Eden just to sit outside your door ... ... Níl a shíltear mar a bhítear. Things are not always what they seem.
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July 18th 2011, 03:36 AM
I'm not big on counting, but it's been at least a few weeks.
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July 18th 2011, 06:52 AM
One month today.
Dare to be Different, to be Weird, to be a Freak.
Overall, Dare to be yourself. 
Stamp Out Prejudice Hatred and Intolerance Everywhere
The Sophie Lancaster Foundation
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July 19th 2011, 07:14 PM
i got up to 9 weeks, 3 hours, and 33 minutes. now im at almost 13 hours >_> ugh
formerly snowstorm, GoneBeyondRepair, and Breathless in Love Repose en Paix, Grandad/mom H., Sito, Nay, Mary, Aunt S., Peter, Katie, Lexi, Mrs. Radoye, Mandii, Trevor, Megan, Uncle T., Erika, Aunt R., Braxton, Connie, Adam, Grandpa, Buttons, Aunt Barb, Pi, Grandma ♥ The world will bleed its bloody tale. People will throw their stones. But the one thing you must always remember is: You no longer walk alone. -Blake Bliss
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July 19th 2011, 07:49 PM
One day...
When life gives you one thousand reasons to cry, show life one million reasons to SMILE!
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July 20th 2011, 10:15 AM
Well, it's been just about three months for me, now.
I made a promise that I never would harm myself again, but lately I've been having urges and thoughts that might eventually lead to SH.
So, I thought I'd post to remind myself that I shouldn't do anything.
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Purr Purr Purr.
Jeez, get a life!
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July 20th 2011, 11:13 AM
three dayss.
’Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light.’
Big sis, always and forever, 15/04/2018
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July 20th 2011, 11:32 AM
3 weeks
'Never do anything that you wouldn't want to explain to the paramedics'
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RIP Peter <3
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July 20th 2011, 12:21 PM
Few minutes. 
Well done guys. You can all do this.
"Why want another universe if this one has dogs?"
Matt Haig - The Midnight Library
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July 20th 2011, 10:29 PM
like twenty minutes. ):
When you can't find your way home, and when life gets too hard to face on your own. I will stand as a light through the darkness unknown, I will walk with you, so you're never alone.
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I'm as sane as I ever was.
 I can't get enough
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July 20th 2011, 10:33 PM
Good job guys!! Stay strong! We can all beat this.
It's only been a day for me.
wanderlust consumed her;
foreign hearts & exotic minds compelled her.
she had a gypsy soul
and a vibrant heart for the unknown.
-d. marie
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July 21st 2011, 12:15 AM
umm.. about a day and a half... >_>
formerly snowstorm, GoneBeyondRepair, and Breathless in Love Repose en Paix, Grandad/mom H., Sito, Nay, Mary, Aunt S., Peter, Katie, Lexi, Mrs. Radoye, Mandii, Trevor, Megan, Uncle T., Erika, Aunt R., Braxton, Connie, Adam, Grandpa, Buttons, Aunt Barb, Pi, Grandma ♥ The world will bleed its bloody tale. People will throw their stones. But the one thing you must always remember is: You no longer walk alone. -Blake Bliss
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July 21st 2011, 12:35 AM
one day now. but today was better moslty bc the aniexty over being punished was gone
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