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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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Re: Self harm free! - June 4th 2011, 09:06 PM

39 days since i've cut last...




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Re: Self harm free! - June 4th 2011, 09:48 PM

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Re: Self harm free! - June 4th 2011, 11:47 PM

10 minutes....ergh stupid Emma


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Re: Self harm free! - June 5th 2011, 12:40 AM

2 months and 17 days ^_^
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Re: Self harm free! - June 5th 2011, 09:39 AM

About 6 minutes. F***.
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Re: Self harm free! - June 5th 2011, 11:18 AM

8 hours though I'm thinking of not counting my screw up last night....

In that case 9 weeks /:
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Re: Self harm free! - June 5th 2011, 11:41 AM

10 hours :/


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Re: Self harm free! - June 5th 2011, 08:54 PM

made it to 40 days

or 5 weeks and 5 days

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Re: Self harm free! - June 5th 2011, 09:06 PM

10 minutes, approx. :/


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Re: Self harm free! - June 5th 2011, 09:16 PM

Twelve days.




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Re: Self harm free! - June 5th 2011, 10:44 PM

13 hours. Improvement.
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Re: Self harm free! - June 6th 2011, 02:33 AM

one week!


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Re: Self harm free! - June 7th 2011, 02:11 AM

Since maybe almost 4 weeks Yay! I've found my best coping skills and alternatives to be drawing on myself with sharpies and drawing on myself with nail polish and then pealing it off.
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Re: Self harm free! - June 7th 2011, 05:09 PM

cut free for 42 days




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Re: Self harm free! - June 7th 2011, 05:16 PM

fifteen hours.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 7th 2011, 08:55 PM

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Re: Self harm free! - June 8th 2011, 01:08 AM

41 days today
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Re: Self harm free! - June 8th 2011, 01:47 AM

Three days.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 8th 2011, 11:10 AM

Three days. If you dont count the scratching old cuts.
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Re: Self harm free! - June 8th 2011, 05:01 PM

One week
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Re: Self harm free! - June 8th 2011, 05:20 PM

Four days.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 8th 2011, 06:09 PM

hmm.. .. ..43 days?




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Re: Self harm free! - June 8th 2011, 07:12 PM

Four days. Looks like me and Katelyn are in joint place......
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Re: Self harm free! - June 8th 2011, 07:23 PM

A day...

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Re: Self harm free! - June 9th 2011, 04:33 PM

About 12 minutes. Crap.
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Re: Self harm free! - June 9th 2011, 06:20 PM

cut free for 44 days




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Re: Self harm free! - June 11th 2011, 06:01 PM

13 Days. Oh hey, look, Thirteen.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 11th 2011, 06:18 PM

46 days cut free




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Re: Self harm free! - June 11th 2011, 06:37 PM

So guesstimating that I last cut on 31st March, that would make it:
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Wow. longer than I thought.
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Re: Self harm free! - June 12th 2011, 01:47 AM

As of today, I've been self harm free for one year.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 12th 2011, 01:54 AM

Yay Chess!

Errr. Nine days....


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Re: Self harm free! - June 12th 2011, 01:55 AM

A week!


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Re: Self harm free! - June 12th 2011, 02:30 AM

18 hours since I last cut.


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Re: Self harm free! - June 12th 2011, 02:45 AM

Congratulations chess!! That is so awesome!!

Uhhh 10 weeks, I guess /:
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Re: Self harm free! - June 12th 2011, 08:17 AM

I have lost count. as in i still SH but havent cut for a couple of months.
but the urge to cut is getting stronger every day
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Re: Self harm free! - June 13th 2011, 04:48 AM

I am not yet there I am trying. hopefully tomorrow starts my one day I will try to fight this.
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Re: Self harm free! - June 13th 2011, 05:06 AM

I can't even remember the last time I cut... I know that it's been over a month, I know I cut before the DC trip with school so it couldn't be more than five weeks... Still... Five weeks is a really long time to go without... My stomach is covered in bleeding cuts, and my hand is just starting to stop bleeding, I cut it ten minutes ago... =(
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Re: Self harm free! - June 13th 2011, 06:09 PM

Four hours. Not so pleased.

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Re: Self harm free! - June 14th 2011, 12:36 AM

46 days
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Re: Self harm free! - June 14th 2011, 02:09 AM

Nine days for me.


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