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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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Re: Self harm free! - May 8th 2011, 08:29 AM

9 hours. Damn it.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 8th 2011, 02:56 PM

15 weeekssss. [105 days]

keep it up everyone, you're doing great <3



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Re: Self harm free! - May 8th 2011, 05:34 PM

4 days....





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Re: Self harm free! - May 8th 2011, 11:38 PM

I had been self-harm free for over two years, but I slipped after my hospitalization. So I'll say three months.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 8th 2011, 11:43 PM

Likeeeeeee ten days.
I need to take this more seriously..


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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2011, 01:59 AM

Five months -minus one slipup that didn't really count.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2011, 03:44 AM

I'm counting my slip up.. Can't let myself encourage bad behaviour again.. aha

17 days.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2011, 07:24 AM

i don't even know. i haven't cut deep since 2/12/09




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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2011, 10:03 PM

I actually don't know. Around a month I think.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2011, 10:04 PM

Eleven days. Mhmmmm


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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2011, 08:57 PM

4 more days and it will be 4 years cut free
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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2011, 10:15 PM

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4 more days and it will be 4 years cut free
That. Is. AMAZING! Well done!!!!!!


9 hours for me. All bandaged up after MIU, so nowhere to cut. Let's make it to 12 hours at least.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2011, 10:26 PM

15 days




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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2011, 10:30 PM

One day. Failllll


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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2011, 10:33 PM

13 days
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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2011, 10:58 PM

13 or 14... I can't count O.o
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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2011, 11:17 PM

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1month and 1 week and epically struggling right now
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Re: Self harm free! - May 12th 2011, 10:40 PM

I hate that I can't remember when the last time was. Grrrrr.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 13th 2011, 06:06 AM

Two days. Yayyyyyyyyyyy


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Re: Self harm free! - May 13th 2011, 07:36 AM

I've actually never SH'ed myself, but to be completely honest, I've been contemplating it all day today.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 13th 2011, 05:29 PM

over seven months




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Re: Self harm free! - May 13th 2011, 05:50 PM

Day and a half. Only because they're watching me :/
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Re: Self harm free! - May 13th 2011, 05:54 PM

17 days and honestly, i've had less than 5 urges




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Re: Self harm free! - May 14th 2011, 05:55 AM

Three days Yarrrrrr


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Re: Self harm free! - May 14th 2011, 06:10 AM

One year and three months. Slipped with a scratch attack in January, but no blood, and I like saying a year better. ^__^


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Re: Self harm free! - May 14th 2011, 07:17 PM

I've decided to not count my 'slip up'.

I've got 15 days.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 14th 2011, 07:52 PM

18 days




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Re: Self harm free! - May 16th 2011, 08:30 PM

20 days, starting to struggle a little :/




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Re: Self harm free! - May 16th 2011, 08:56 PM

2 Days !
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Re: Self harm free! - May 16th 2011, 10:32 PM

1 day. i fail.




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Re: Self harm free! - May 16th 2011, 10:43 PM

two whole weeks.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 16th 2011, 10:52 PM

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Re: Self harm free! - May 16th 2011, 10:53 PM

17 days

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Re: Self harm free! - May 16th 2011, 10:57 PM

1 day. I suck


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Re: Self harm free! - May 17th 2011, 11:22 AM

Over an hour.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 17th 2011, 11:23 AM

3 days and then i slipped up


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Re: Self harm free! - May 17th 2011, 05:14 PM

24hours
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Re: Self harm free! - May 18th 2011, 02:59 AM

1 day.. (did it last night)

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Re: Self harm free! - May 18th 2011, 06:41 PM

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ugh i can't do this.

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Re: Self harm free! - May 18th 2011, 06:55 PM

Nineteen days.


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