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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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Re: Self harm free! - April 15th 2011, 12:26 AM

Three days as well hehehe



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Re: Self harm free! - April 15th 2011, 08:28 AM

2 hours.
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Re: Self harm free! - April 16th 2011, 04:24 AM

Well hey there 82 days.



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Re: Self harm free! - April 16th 2011, 04:43 AM

2 months 1 week 5 days


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Re: Self harm free! - April 16th 2011, 06:31 AM

2 weeks and 3 days!!!!! It's so exciting! The longest I've gone before this was a week. ^^



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Re: Self harm free! - April 16th 2011, 06:33 AM

Night number four...


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Re: Self harm free! - April 16th 2011, 08:58 AM

nearly 2 days




and in that moment, I swear we were infinite
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Re: Self harm free! - April 16th 2011, 09:24 PM

12 days.almost 2 weeks..
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Re: Self harm free! - April 16th 2011, 09:26 PM

About a month.
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Re: Self harm free! - April 17th 2011, 04:03 AM

2 months 1 week 6 days


There is no distance on this earth as far away as yesterday...
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Re: Self harm free! - April 17th 2011, 05:10 AM

12 weeks.
84 days.

Just keep swimminggggg



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Re: Self harm free! - April 17th 2011, 03:24 PM

26 months today (:


Honey, you're familiar, like my mirror, years ago
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Re: Self harm free! - April 17th 2011, 07:21 PM

13 days. =)
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Re: Self harm free! - April 17th 2011, 07:25 PM

20 hours. I suck


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Re: Self harm free! - April 17th 2011, 09:37 PM

270 days

For those of you who are still battling it - remember that every minute that you don't SH counts. Hang in there <3


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Re: Self harm free! - April 18th 2011, 02:10 AM

2 months 2 weeks.


There is no distance on this earth as far away as yesterday...
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Re: Self harm free! - April 20th 2011, 04:38 AM

Only a few days...


Whenever things go wrong, I ask why this had to happen to me....

Is life ever truly worth living without a meaning?

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Re: Self harm free! - April 20th 2011, 04:43 AM

only 2 days. i suck





From day one I talked about getting out
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Re: Self harm free! - April 21st 2011, 03:12 PM

Few days ago, i cut for the first time but it scared me so much i don't think i'll do it again.


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Re: Self harm free! - April 22nd 2011, 02:33 AM

Nineteen days(: I can do this!
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Re: Self harm free! - April 22nd 2011, 02:39 AM

Thirteen days! :]


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Re: Self harm free! - April 22nd 2011, 04:47 AM

Seventy-eight days


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Re: Self harm free! - April 22nd 2011, 08:01 AM

Less than an hour.

I was almost up to a month, was trying to actually do something someone could be proud of.

Guess I fucked that up :/
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Re: Self harm free! - April 22nd 2011, 03:56 PM

four days..





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Re: Self harm free! - April 23rd 2011, 04:35 AM

Seventy-nine days


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Re: Self harm free! - April 23rd 2011, 06:02 AM

twoooo weeks


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Re: Self harm free! - April 23rd 2011, 11:55 PM

7 months
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Re: Self harm free! - April 24th 2011, 04:39 AM

Eighty days.


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Re: Self harm free! - April 24th 2011, 05:10 AM

13 weeks.....
91 days.
Ya know.



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Re: Self harm free! - April 24th 2011, 05:21 AM

Two days.
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Going on three?


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Re: Self harm free! - April 24th 2011, 05:39 AM

six days..going on seven.





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Re: Self harm free! - April 24th 2011, 09:36 PM

Well, if my relapse with a safety pin counts, then I'm down to 1 day. If not, then 4 weeks as of tomorrow.


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Re: Self harm free! - April 24th 2011, 09:46 PM

Maybe three hours.


’Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light.’


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Re: Self harm free! - April 25th 2011, 01:01 AM

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Less than an hour.

I was almost up to a month, was trying to actually do something someone could be proud of.

Guess I fucked that up :/
You do a million things people can be proud of Pie. It's a slip-up, we all have them. I know that you can do it hon, I have faith in you.


For me it's three weeks today, but I'm extremely tempted so it probably won't last long.
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Re: Self harm free! - April 25th 2011, 08:47 PM

Fifteen hours.


’Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light.’


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Re: Self harm free! - April 25th 2011, 08:48 PM

Like 3 or 4 days. Ehhhhhhhh


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Re: Self harm free! - April 25th 2011, 08:49 PM

Seventeen daayys
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Re: Self harm free! - April 26th 2011, 12:42 AM

22 days
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Re: Self harm free! - April 26th 2011, 12:48 AM

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Re: Self harm free! - April 26th 2011, 05:12 AM

20 hours





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