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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help.

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Re: Self harm free! - November 9th 2009, 07:06 PM

two days.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 9th 2009, 08:31 PM

since last week. (:



And the worst part is
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Re: Self harm free! - November 9th 2009, 08:59 PM

21 hours..



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Re: Self harm free! - November 9th 2009, 09:25 PM

Eight months now.


You're everything I know that makes me believe
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Re: Self harm free! - November 10th 2009, 08:16 PM

12 hours. gotta start over.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 10th 2009, 08:19 PM

4 weeks. No big deal.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 10th 2009, 08:36 PM

7 weeks, one day.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 10th 2009, 08:47 PM

Seventeen days.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 10th 2009, 08:58 PM

7 Weeks 3 Days
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Re: Self harm free! - November 10th 2009, 10:46 PM

Starting over at 8 hours now.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 10th 2009, 11:12 PM

3 hours.

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Re: Self harm free! - November 11th 2009, 12:33 AM

21 days, or 3 weeks


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Re: Self harm free! - November 11th 2009, 03:08 AM

'bout 15 minutes =/ i lost it ='(
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Re: Self harm free! - November 11th 2009, 09:16 PM

One year and a day!




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Re: Self harm free! - November 11th 2009, 10:09 PM

Seven weeks, two days.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 11th 2009, 11:32 PM

Eighteen days.
So difficult right now.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 12th 2009, 04:14 AM

about a day =/ gotta start somewhere i guess...
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Re: Self harm free! - November 12th 2009, 11:29 PM

9 months today




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Re: Self harm free! - November 13th 2009, 12:01 AM

2 days (: hoping i can keep this up forever i hope <3


Met you from a tie between u and me buddy,
Saw you from my wired eyes with a twisted little lie, and my mind told me negative when i had a wish to own you with my heart, buddy and you split like twigs, senses told her i fell for him, and she told me "i loved him, and go get him" And while i said "negative he said "correct" <3


Me and ? = 3 days which =correct
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Re: Self harm free! - November 13th 2009, 11:27 AM

Two days...ugh...I should try and get back to over a month...


"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."
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Re: Self harm free! - November 13th 2009, 01:26 PM

Fifty-Five Days
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Re: Self harm free! - November 13th 2009, 02:08 PM

That is awesome everyone! I am so proud of all you it takes alot of strength and courage each day to make the decision to not cut yourself!

its almost 2 years for me
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Re: Self harm free! - November 13th 2009, 04:14 PM

almost 2 days! its not much but its a starting point
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Re: Self harm free! - November 13th 2009, 04:21 PM

Seven weeks, four days.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 13th 2009, 05:57 PM

Twenty days.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 13th 2009, 09:35 PM

squee. 3 months!!! I know it is not as good as when I hit a year a while ago, but I am getting there.


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Re: Self harm free! - November 14th 2009, 03:40 PM

Yay well done Bri!

8 Weeks for me.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 14th 2009, 03:48 PM

Hi everyone. You are all doing great !!For me it has been 2years today!




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Re: Self harm free! - November 14th 2009, 04:54 PM

Wow. you're all doing great

As far as cutting, about 3 months.


you just can't take the me, out of me. and that is what i need the world to see.

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Re: Self harm free! - November 14th 2009, 06:03 PM

Seven weeks, five days...
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Re: Self harm free! - November 14th 2009, 06:21 PM

Lost it ): i cant do this anymore. last time i went 8 months without it but now it just seems impossible


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Me and ? = 3 days which =correct
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Re: Self harm free! - November 15th 2009, 03:27 PM

9 months, three days.

i don't know how much longer i can do this?




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Re: Self harm free! - November 15th 2009, 07:54 PM

3 weeks and one day.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 15th 2009, 07:57 PM

Seven weeks, six days.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 15th 2009, 09:50 PM

A few hours
I can't do this...
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Re: Self harm free! - November 15th 2009, 10:05 PM

4 days... :/


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Re: Self harm free! - November 15th 2009, 11:04 PM

To everyone starting/re-starting, CONGRATZ! Don't undermine your few hours, days, months... Everyone here knows how each second is such a huge accomplishment. Be proud of every moment you keep yourself from doing it!

Right now...I think I'm at about... A year and a week [don't remember exactly when the last time was, I just kind of forgot about it]

But it's getting really hard again =/ I hope I can keep this up...
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Re: Self harm free! - November 16th 2009, 06:51 PM

15 hours? *sigh*


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Re: Self harm free! - November 16th 2009, 07:52 PM

Well.
Two months.
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Re: Self harm free! - November 16th 2009, 07:54 PM

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That's amazinggg. SO proud.

23 days.
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