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October 6th 2009, 04:17 PM
Seventeen Days.
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October 7th 2009, 03:13 AM
it has been a little more then a month! i am hoping that i never will do it again too....good job to everyone for not SH!!
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October 7th 2009, 03:43 AM
Made it through last night.  almost didn't make it through today. But I can do it! ...right?
Hope is real. Help is real. LOVE is the movement.
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October 7th 2009, 05:07 AM
back to one day again.....damnit
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice. Cut free since March 6th 2013 Purge free since March 8th 2013
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October 7th 2009, 06:15 AM
1 day... *sigh* this is harder then I imagined it to be.
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October 7th 2009, 08:45 AM
about 1 month & 4 days.
Longest time was 3 months.
I hope i can actually stop this time.
So come on, get higher, loosen my lips;
Alex;15
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October 7th 2009, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted by forever_hannah
Made it through last night. almost didn't make it through today. But I can do it! ...right?
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oh course you can hannah, have faith HUGGS
well done for being determined
8 hours, 2 more to go to beat my record of 10 hours
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October 7th 2009, 05:39 PM
16 days. [:
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October 7th 2009, 11:08 PM
3 Months...2 Weeks...and 4 Days!!! =]
This is the longest I've EVER gone without it =]
Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..
Life is great! 
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October 7th 2009, 11:38 PM
I don't think I'mma make it through tonight.... but so far... a day and a half.
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October 8th 2009, 02:09 AM
2 days this is harder then usual..im not sure about this..
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice. Cut free since March 6th 2013 Purge free since March 8th 2013
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October 8th 2009, 02:49 AM
YOu guys are doing great,,don't give up now.
I know you guys can do this , you guys are doing amazingly great, YOU CAN DO IT!! :]
There is only one person who could ever
make you happy, and that person is you.
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October 8th 2009, 05:59 AM
I'm going on two years. But I lost it 2 weeks ago. :/
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October 8th 2009, 06:55 AM
Two days. I got this .. at least for tonight.
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October 8th 2009, 01:58 PM
Day 17. (:
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October 8th 2009, 02:17 PM
i think its been about 1-2 months now
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October 8th 2009, 02:55 PM
Goin' on 3 days..
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October 8th 2009, 08:33 PM
3 months, 2 weeks and 5 days!!
Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..
Life is great!
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October 8th 2009, 09:46 PM
22 weeks and 4 days
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October 8th 2009, 10:40 PM
Nineteen Days.
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October 9th 2009, 12:01 AM
3 and a half days now.
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October 9th 2009, 04:04 AM
3 days..i can do this for now.
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice. Cut free since March 6th 2013 Purge free since March 8th 2013
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October 9th 2009, 04:11 AM
I tried it because it felt like something that would relieve the emotional pain. Rather than trying to solve my problems and figure out why I was hurting, if I self harmed it was easy to know why I was hurting. I was in physical pain. It moved everything to make a little more sense.
Goin' on four days.
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October 9th 2009, 04:33 AM
5 weeks exactly
I reaaaaally want to though. someone talk me out of it please!
So come on, get higher, loosen my lips;
Alex;15
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October 9th 2009, 04:37 AM
3 months. (=
You will come to realize that what appears today to be a sacrafice will prove instead to be the greatest investment you ever made.
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October 9th 2009, 04:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Kadster
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I really don't have a clue why I started.
Lik I was feeling really shit at that point and I had just broken up with my bf of the time, who turned out to be a dick, he said he wished he never met me and that I don't ever deserve to be happy cuz I'm such a bad person 
And for some reason, I thought of SH'ing and I did.
But anyone who has done it before, will say that it is sooo hard to give up, no matter how much you want to give up.
For me, its been 3 months, 2 weeks and 6 days since I last SH'ed. 
I'm happy.
Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..
Life is great!
Last edited by Jack; October 9th 2009 at 11:08 PM.
Reason: Removing reference to deleted post.
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October 9th 2009, 05:03 AM
Mmm tonight is hard. I'm struggling a lot. Talk me out of it so I can make it to day four... ):
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October 9th 2009, 05:09 AM
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Originally Posted by alonealways
Mmm tonight is hard. I'm struggling a lot. Talk me out of it so I can make it to day four... ):
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Come on, You Can do it
Let's aim for a week
Once you reach that, aim for 2 weeks.
I've been struggling a lot recently, but I've kinda made a promise to myself that I'm gonna stop.
I'm so much happier now I've quit.
Why is it hard for you tonight??
Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..
Life is great!
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October 9th 2009, 05:18 AM
Just a lot of stuff going on right now. I might have to share a room with my little sister while my sister's boyfriend heals from heart surgery, the guy I really really like/my best friend is ignoring me, and homework is stressing me out to no end. ): I'm really worried about my grandpa too cause he has a disease that can't be cured and he's dying from it. )':
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October 9th 2009, 05:53 AM
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Originally Posted by alonealways
Just a lot of stuff going on right now. I might have to share a room with my little sister while my sister's boyfriend heals from heart surgery, the guy I really really like/my best friend is ignoring me, and homework is stressing me out to no end. ): I'm really worried about my grandpa too cause he has a disease that can't be cured and he's dying from it. )':
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Hey, I know things are hard for you right now, but don't hurt yourself.
It's only gonna make things worse.
Right now, i think you should do something to take ur mind of things.
Go for a walk, listen to loud music, go for a nap. lol
Come on, let's reach this target of a week
You can do it.
Be strong
Life is too short to be anything other than happy all the time ..
Life is great!
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October 9th 2009, 11:03 AM
just over 5 hours...
"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."
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October 9th 2009, 11:06 AM
20 Days, but I have a feeling I may not last the day 
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October 9th 2009, 12:02 PM
2 months and 8 days
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October 9th 2009, 02:10 PM
Normally I feel great in the morning.. ugh what's wrong with me? This is day four.. I'm hating this every minute.
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October 9th 2009, 09:48 PM
2 hours still - when would i ever get over the 10
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October 9th 2009, 10:44 PM
October 12th will be 8 months sh free (:
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October 9th 2009, 10:47 PM
A day. But I'm trying to get back on my feet.
Hope is real. Help is real. LOVE is the movement.
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October 9th 2009, 10:55 PM
18 days. (:
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October 9th 2009, 11:33 PM
Day four and a half.
Hanging out with friends this weekend... should be fun. (: And easier. Hahaha.
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October 10th 2009, 10:56 AM
Nine weeks (ten on Tuesday) since my last cut.
And one week into my goal of two weeks with no self-harming at all.
"Love means never having to say you're a werewolf."
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